"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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do you have an AFC or a DJ dating motto?

crotchrocket

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Does your dating motto make you an AFC or DJ?

These are the rules (in my little part of the world anyway) that most of the guys (and girls of course) follow;

1. you can only 'date' one at a time, if you are dating one - under no circumstances are you allowed to associate with others (in a 'dating' context)
2. if she 'officially' has a boyfriend she is off limits,
3. an 'official status' (boyfriend/girlfriend) is essential, this label is a measure of your success in the dating game

My motto;

1. I date whoever, whenever, and however many I want, if the women can't deal with it then hey that's HER problem
2. MAY THE BEST MAN WIN , NO woman is off-limits (married women - personally I draw the line there)
3. 'official' status is too confining, NOBODY owns me, my success is measured by the number and the quality of women that I've dated/am dating, the number of women that have labeled me their boyfriend is of little importance to me

Am I the ONLY one that has these beliefs? What motto do you follow?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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frivolousz21

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Why date one girl at once?!
You could be out there dating as many as you can mentally keep up with (my limits about 8 then I start forgetting what people tell which looks VERY bad on your part)




thats is true..as much as you can handle...put it this way..you want to accelerate your dj progress.

the more women you date the more of a natural vibe you will give off..and you will be much better at communicating with them!
 

Skullcrusher

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I follow #1.

The only reason why I would be truly exclusive with a woman is if she provides 5/6 of these things:

1. Sex compability
2. Good conversations
3. Reliable
4. Considerate
5. Inclusive
6. Stable

The only thing I do not mind about someone is financial stability.

4/6 = I'll tolerate it
3/6 = I'll fake it
2/6 = FWB

A woman proudly exclaims she fakes her orgasms, oh how proud. A man can fake an entire relationship.
 
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