do you have a boyfriend ?

[decadentdestruction]

now I don't want to know who's bi or gay ,


I started thinking right now , and reading some material from the bible .

how often do you guys here ask that question ?

or should this statement be avoided at all costs

what's a good way to ask this question without sounding too needy or creepish?

all thoughts are welcome!

 

[SickAgain]

I never ask this question. Because it doesn't matter to me. If it matters to her that she has a boyfriend she'll let you know. But sometimes they pull the ol' switcheroo! When you make a move, then they let it be known! Attention ***** alert.

Anyways, I think that question is a bit too forward as if you might be trying to fill that role, and I figure she wouldn't be flirting or out in a club alone if she had a SERIOUS boyfriend. I stress serious again. If you must ask this question make it a little less direct by assuming she already has one as a test: "your boyfriend probably wouldn't approve..."

 

[mikel]

It just depends. I've met girls who would be with guys at bars, or maybe bring one up when I first met them and I ask them. I wouldn't just ask anytime though.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

To me , whether she has a boyfriend or not is IRRELEVANT.


" To get a single girl , you should be better then the rest of the guys , to get a girl with a boyfriend , you just have to be better than him "

I dont know where i read that.