"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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do you have a boyfriend ?

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decadentdestruction

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now I don't want to know who's bi or gay ,


I started thinking right now , and reading some material from the bible .

how often do you guys here ask that question ?

or should this statement be avoided at all costs

what's a good way to ask this question without sounding too needy or creepish?

all thoughts are welcome!
 

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I never ask this question. Because it doesn't matter to me. If it matters to her that she has a boyfriend she'll let you know. But sometimes they pull the ol' switcheroo! When you make a move, then they let it be known! Attention ***** alert.

Anyways, I think that question is a bit too forward as if you might be trying to fill that role, and I figure she wouldn't be flirting or out in a club alone if she had a SERIOUS boyfriend. I stress serious again. If you must ask this question make it a little less direct by assuming she already has one as a test: "your boyfriend probably wouldn't approve..."
 
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It just depends. I've met girls who would be with guys at bars, or maybe bring one up when I first met them and I ask them. I wouldn't just ask anytime though.
 
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