"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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do you have a boyfriend ?

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decadentdestruction

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now I don't want to know who's bi or gay ,


I started thinking right now , and reading some material from the bible .

how often do you guys here ask that question ?

or should this statement be avoided at all costs

what's a good way to ask this question without sounding too needy or creepish?

all thoughts are welcome!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I never ask this question. Because it doesn't matter to me. If it matters to her that she has a boyfriend she'll let you know. But sometimes they pull the ol' switcheroo! When you make a move, then they let it be known! Attention ***** alert.

Anyways, I think that question is a bit too forward as if you might be trying to fill that role, and I figure she wouldn't be flirting or out in a club alone if she had a SERIOUS boyfriend. I stress serious again. If you must ask this question make it a little less direct by assuming she already has one as a test: "your boyfriend probably wouldn't approve..."
 
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It just depends. I've met girls who would be with guys at bars, or maybe bring one up when I first met them and I ask them. I wouldn't just ask anytime though.
 
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