"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?

Kian_boem

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so this happend last year and i havent seen this girl in a long time so i was at work and i went out to the lobby and i saw the girl i used to liked back in high school sitting at the table with her boyfriend i guess she was waiting for her food at the table because i saw her looking over at the front counter when i went out to the lobby and saw her though i stood there looked at her from afar but i looked away and went back to work.but now i keep seeing her boyfriend picking up food for the both of them at the place i work at soo i guess she doesnt wanna see me so she makes him pick up the food there.
so a few weeks ago i went out with my friends to the mall and i guess she was also there shopping with her bf. so she saw me and was talking about me to him because when i turn around i saw him looking at me but then he looked away.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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marvinlfloresq

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Yes, i think she does not want to see you.
If its exactly the way you describe it.

But, why does it matter? Block her from your mind. There are more important things.
 

Kian_boem

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Yes, i think she does not want to see you.
If its exactly the way you describe it.

But, why does it matter? Block her from your mind. There are more important things.
i guess she doesnt wanna see me because the other day i was at the store and she saw me there and she was walking fast so she went the other way lol
 

marvinlfloresq

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Bummer, what a young minded girl. Odds are, she sees you with a group of friends and a hotter woman, she'll run into you on purpose the next time. Just block her from your mind. I would ignore her or walk by her on purpose just to ignore her lol.
 

marmel75

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Who cares?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kian_boem

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I been there myself lol. We are after all, human..
idk why i still think about it because this happend last year lol. but the other day when i went out to the mall with my friends she was also there shopping with her bf so i guess she saw me and was talking about me to him because when i turn around i saw him looking at me but then he looked away. i bet she told him theres that guy who kept on staring at me back in high school lolz.
 
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