"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?

Kian_boem

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so this happend last year and i havent seen this girl in a long time so i was at work and i went out to the lobby and i saw the girl i used to liked back in high school sitting at the table with her boyfriend i guess she was waiting for her food at the table because i saw her looking over at the front counter when i went out to the lobby and saw her though i stood there looked at her from afar but i looked away and went back to work.but now i keep seeing her boyfriend picking up food for the both of them at the place i work at soo i guess she doesnt wanna see me so she makes him pick up the food there.
so a few weeks ago i went out with my friends to the mall and i guess she was also there shopping with her bf. so she saw me and was talking about me to him because when i turn around i saw him looking at me but then he looked away.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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marvinlfloresq

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Yes, i think she does not want to see you.
If its exactly the way you describe it.

But, why does it matter? Block her from your mind. There are more important things.
 

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Yes, i think she does not want to see you.
If its exactly the way you describe it.

But, why does it matter? Block her from your mind. There are more important things.
i guess she doesnt wanna see me because the other day i was at the store and she saw me there and she was walking fast so she went the other way lol
 

marvinlfloresq

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Bummer, what a young minded girl. Odds are, she sees you with a group of friends and a hotter woman, she'll run into you on purpose the next time. Just block her from your mind. I would ignore her or walk by her on purpose just to ignore her lol.
 

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Who cares?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kian_boem

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I been there myself lol. We are after all, human..
idk why i still think about it because this happend last year lol. but the other day when i went out to the mall with my friends she was also there shopping with her bf so i guess she saw me and was talking about me to him because when i turn around i saw him looking at me but then he looked away. i bet she told him theres that guy who kept on staring at me back in high school lolz.
 
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