"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you guys think she did this because of me?

Kian_boem

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So I have my Twitter page on private & I don’t follow this girl on Twitter so When I was going through this girl twitter page she made a post about something & idk if I pressed liked on her post or something because when I went to her Twitter page later she put it as private. Do u guys think she knew it was me and maybe that’s why she put her twitter account on private or no?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So I have my Twitter page on private & I don’t follow this girl on Twitter so When I was going through this girl twitter page she made a post about something & idk if I pressed liked on her post or something because when I went to her Twitter page later she put it as private. Do u guys think she knew it was me and maybe that’s why she put her twitter account on private or no?
Only one reason a girl would do that because of a man is He’s online stalking her/being a creep.

If that’s not your case, then the answer is no.… but if it is, leave her alone.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Only one reason a girl would do that because of a man is He’s online stalking her/being a creep.

If that’s not your case, then the answer is no.… but if it is, leave her alone.
but I had my twitter account on private and that’s when I was going through her Twitter page and she made a posts about something and idk if I accidentally liked one of her posts but later when I went to her Twitter page again she put it as private so idk I guess she found out it was me or something
 

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I think you need to get away from social media and go do things in the real world.
This ^^

You're making to big a thing out of this. Do you know her in the real world? If not, what the hell are you doing? If yes, go talk to her face to face and pay attention to her reaction, if she likes you, you should be able to sense it.
 

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I think you need to get away from social media and go do things in the real world.
So u don’t think she did it because of me then? But back in high school when I had classes with her one day when I was sitting at my desk on my phone and I was on my friends twitter tweet and she was hanging out with her friends and she came over to get a chair and she saw me that I was on Twitter and she thought I was looking at her tweets but i was on my friends tweet. But then later when I went to her Twitter she put as private. So idk
 

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So I have my Twitter page on private & I don’t follow this girl on Twitter so When I was going through this girl twitter page she made a post about something & idk if I pressed liked on her post or something because when I went to her Twitter page later she put it as private. Do u guys think she knew it was me and maybe that’s why she put her twitter account on private or no?
Read kiss of death article
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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