user252009
Master Don Juan
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And I don't mean head. Every time I tried to shave down there it caused so much itching I went crazy so never made it a habit.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Hmm... Not sure, I never have that issue.Yeah I used a trimmer but it still itched like a motherf
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Maybe try some aloe or Gold Bond powder, or maybe even some cortisone cream?Yeah I used a trimmer but it still itched like a motherf
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I actually believe you.I found these younger women tend to favour me being oldskool.
I've noticed hairiness is perceived very differently on older men than on young. If you're young, hairy, bearded (especially if you aren't blessed with a close, full beard) you ain't viewed very favorably and seen as unattractive and lazy and not taking good care of yourself, whereas if you're well into your 40s or beyond, being hairy and bearded suddenly becomes "manly" almost as if it's a sign of wisdom or something like that. I personally don't get it, but to each their own.I actually believe you.
And coming from that perspective, the bush is not only welcomed, but also expected.
But I'm saying from my perspective, as a lean 30 something guy. In my body aesthetic, they favour hairless.
That's why men trim rather than shaving themselves bareAnd I don't mean head. Every time I tried to shave down there it caused so much itching I went crazy so never made it a habit.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ofcourse it's a personal matter, but if I shave my armpits I tend to get smelly quicker. Aesthetically it isn't necessary so I don't even bother anymore. Mind you: I NEVER had any hair on my chest so I'm not a hairy guy( black Caribbean Latin Indian & Chinese dna)I just started wet shaving few months ago using a safety razor and I recently started doing the armpits and down there with it too. If the area ain't used to razor shaving it has to get used to it first, sometimes even if your technique is mild or use whatever pre/aftershave product on the skin. Frequent shaving on a new area for around a month and a half is what it takes for my skin to adapt to smooth ATG shaving and a completely spotless result.
Likewise. I'm also blessed with a pretty much completely hairless torso besides armpits and a couple of nipple hairs. Imagine all the extra work of having hairs all over your upper body, including back, ough.Ofcourse it's a personal matter, but if I shave my armpits I tend to get smelly quicker. Aesthetically it isn't necessary so I don't even bother anymore. Mind you: I NEVER had any hair on my chest so I'm not a hairy guy( black Caribbean Latin Indian & Chinese dna)
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.