"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you guys shave?

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And I don't mean head. Every time I tried to shave down there it caused so much itching I went crazy so never made it a habit.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bro it's not that hard, buy a nice body trimming razer... i even used a cheap $10 electric face razor with an adjustable clip guard down there and never had problems, even as someone with sensitive skin. Just take your time and start small. There's no point shaving it that just looks weird anyway just trim it down a bit.
 

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I just started wet shaving few months ago using a safety razor and I recently started doing the armpits and down there with it too. If the area ain't used to razor shaving it has to get used to it first, sometimes even if your technique is mild or use whatever pre/aftershave product on the skin. Frequent shaving on a new area for around a month and a half is what it takes for my skin to adapt to smooth ATG shaving and a completely spotless result.
 

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Yeah I used a trimmer but it still itched like a motherf
Maybe try some aloe or Gold Bond powder, or maybe even some cortisone cream?
 

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Obviously!

Unless you don't want to fvck chicks under 30y/o.

Use this:

comb 2mm for body
comb 1mm for pubic area
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Lotus Effect

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I found these younger women tend to favour me being oldskool.
I actually believe you.

And coming from that perspective, the bush is not only welcomed, but also expected.

But I'm saying from my perspective, as a lean 30 something guy. In my body aesthetic, they favour hairless.
 

Lean Baby Face

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I actually believe you.

And coming from that perspective, the bush is not only welcomed, but also expected.

But I'm saying from my perspective, as a lean 30 something guy. In my body aesthetic, they favour hairless.
I've noticed hairiness is perceived very differently on older men than on young. If you're young, hairy, bearded (especially if you aren't blessed with a close, full beard) you ain't viewed very favorably and seen as unattractive and lazy and not taking good care of yourself, whereas if you're well into your 40s or beyond, being hairy and bearded suddenly becomes "manly" almost as if it's a sign of wisdom or something like that. I personally don't get it, but to each their own.

Being young, lean, and muscular myself with tall features, I favor a hairless look as well and I find my appearance rapidly reduces the more hairy I get, which now is a thing of the past as my facial, armpit, and pubic hair never gets a chance to grow past 1 mm before getting shaved off BBS.

I also favor sex when both have their pubic areas shaved as I get highly turned on by the repeated hairless clapping plus having the D look bigger along with the defined Adonis belt which really stands out once freshly shaved.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes I shave. Feels better. I'd do laser removal but it's expensive and doesn't always work.
 

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Gotta shave down there but you don't want to overdue it. Maybe once a month. Use shavjng creme, never dry shave. Preferably under the shower.

Aftercare is also extremely important because the skin there is thin. Get some good natural lotion , something with aleuvera for example.



I just started wet shaving few months ago using a safety razor and I recently started doing the armpits and down there with it too. If the area ain't used to razor shaving it has to get used to it first, sometimes even if your technique is mild or use whatever pre/aftershave product on the skin. Frequent shaving on a new area for around a month and a half is what it takes for my skin to adapt to smooth ATG shaving and a completely spotless result.
Ofcourse it's a personal matter, but if I shave my armpits I tend to get smelly quicker. Aesthetically it isn't necessary so I don't even bother anymore. Mind you: I NEVER had any hair on my chest so I'm not a hairy guy( black Caribbean Latin Indian & Chinese dna)
 

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Ofcourse it's a personal matter, but if I shave my armpits I tend to get smelly quicker. Aesthetically it isn't necessary so I don't even bother anymore. Mind you: I NEVER had any hair on my chest so I'm not a hairy guy( black Caribbean Latin Indian & Chinese dna)
Likewise. I'm also blessed with a pretty much completely hairless torso besides armpits and a couple of nipple hairs. Imagine all the extra work of having hairs all over your upper body, including back, ough.
 

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I get a Brazilian wax every five weeks or so.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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