Just wondering. Well, not really just wondering. I met this cute girl at work and wouldn't mind asking her out. Don't know if she's single though. I'm thinking of trying to get her to come out partying with me this weekend, but don't know if she will (she said she had tons of homework to do, and she works most of the weekend).
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Do you guys bother trying to figure out if a girl's single before you ask her out?
- Thread starter Kal0051
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
Does it matter? Even if she was with somebody else, chances are she's just waiting for another dude to mess with.Kal0051 said:
If a girl is pretty 99% of the times she isn't really single.
She may not have a guy whom she can bestow and slap a "boyfriend" title on him (thus fvck a guy without being labeled a slvt) but if she needs a hard d1ck she has plenty of "guy acquaintances" or "guy friends" who are willing to "hang out for a bit" (aka fvcking) with no questions asked.
You are just the next swinging d1ck waiting in line so that's the correct term to assume.
She may not have a guy whom she can bestow and slap a "boyfriend" title on him (thus fvck a guy without being labeled a slvt) but if she needs a hard d1ck she has plenty of "guy acquaintances" or "guy friends" who are willing to "hang out for a bit" (aka fvcking) with no questions asked.
You are just the next swinging d1ck waiting in line so that's the correct term to assume.
I always ask them if they are single. Most are not, but they lie. But I asked, and I can live with myself. Always ask. Don't waste time on emotionally unavailable women. Unless you just want to get laid. Then go ahead and fuvk everything in site.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ridingthelightning
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No, I don't, I talk to her like I want to.
Hidden-Hand
Don Juan
I personally do not. If they arent single they'll let you know if they want you to know. Plus alot of women with boyfriends, finaces, and such will mess around with other guys so w/e. And does it really even matter? I mean if your only looking for a 'good time' and not a LTR then it doesnt matter much now does it?
I was in a long distance relationship and had my girlfriend, whom I loved, stolen out from under me by a guy she was going to school with. I was devastated and heartbroken, and I would never wish that experience on my worst enemy. Because of that, I'll never hit on a "taken" woman; maybe I'm a p*ssy but its my code of ethics and I stand by it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
lol, I have to laugh at your comment. Because tonight I was chilling with a couple girl I am into and one of them mentioned she was on a "break" from her boyfriend and we scheduled a date. Though I am kinda confused at one point. She and the other girl went to wait for her mom to pick her up and she told me if I went to wait with them than we wouldn't hang out. It was kinda weird, any ideas on that?1337 said:
Hmmmm.... sounds like she's pulling the ol' power play... her mum might have a million and one questions about who you are and sounds like she's trying to avoid that situation. Don't chase that or you'll just yield more power, let her come back to you on the date now that it's been arranged. And get some other chicks lined up to stop yourself falling into that oneitis rut.Kal0051 said:
Yeah I used to be like that then I realized that the problem isn't with the guy that she's cheating with but rather with her. Girls that are down to cheat on their boyfriends are going to do it anyways, regardless of whether it's with you or someone else. They're ****ed up in the head, and so you can absolve yourself of all responsibility for her cheating.Von S said:
As for the thread title, why does it matter?
T-Roy
Don Juan
I'll ask sometimes, but not 'cause I care. It's a good way to gauge their interest in you. Dependin' on how the answer. But I only ask if I want a shortcut to finding out that doesn't come along as creepy. Just ask the woman out, if anything it'll be an ego boost to her, and a slight disappointment to you. Unless you're obsessed with her that is the worst that can happen.