"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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do you give a girl your number if she gives you hers?

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just wondering what you guys do? usually i play it like this:

just recently it went this way, don't ask why we spoke like this (long story) but it was joking around:

me: if we gonna be agents we need to exchange numbers.

her: haha yes yes, <number> is moi

me: awesome, i'm <number>

me: now we can communicate on the field.

her: haha yes, one step closer :p



we actually spoke online and she msg me telling me she was moving to the state i'm in, in a few weeks. so i suggest we hang out together when she does and she said sure!

anyway, was i meant to just get her number? or do you guys think that's fine?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You are obviously overthinking this stuff in a HUGE way. Why the hell WOULDN'T you give her your number? Are you against her possibly calling you asking you to hang out or something?
 
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If u believe her to be of sufficient quality to warrent you giving her your number then do so! otherwise... i tend to not!

eg. i pretty much never give my number to a girl at a club... lol
 
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horaholic said:
You are obviously overthinking this stuff in a HUGE way. Why the hell WOULDN'T you give her your number? Are you against her possibly calling you asking you to hang out or something?
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Exactly what I'm thinking. You're already stressing over things THIS early in the stage.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Personally I don't tend to give out my number if i'm getting a girl's just so they can't really screen the first call basically from club/bar situations.

However I have to give you mad props on your agent line and feel that using a witty line like that definitely warrants it
 
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