"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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do you give a girl your number if she gives you hers?

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just wondering what you guys do? usually i play it like this:

just recently it went this way, don't ask why we spoke like this (long story) but it was joking around:

me: if we gonna be agents we need to exchange numbers.

her: haha yes yes, <number> is moi

me: awesome, i'm <number>

me: now we can communicate on the field.

her: haha yes, one step closer :p



we actually spoke online and she msg me telling me she was moving to the state i'm in, in a few weeks. so i suggest we hang out together when she does and she said sure!

anyway, was i meant to just get her number? or do you guys think that's fine?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You are obviously overthinking this stuff in a HUGE way. Why the hell WOULDN'T you give her your number? Are you against her possibly calling you asking you to hang out or something?
 
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If u believe her to be of sufficient quality to warrent you giving her your number then do so! otherwise... i tend to not!

eg. i pretty much never give my number to a girl at a club... lol
 
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horaholic said:
You are obviously overthinking this stuff in a HUGE way. Why the hell WOULDN'T you give her your number? Are you against her possibly calling you asking you to hang out or something?
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Exactly what I'm thinking. You're already stressing over things THIS early in the stage.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Personally I don't tend to give out my number if i'm getting a girl's just so they can't really screen the first call basically from club/bar situations.

However I have to give you mad props on your agent line and feel that using a witty line like that definitely warrants it
 
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