"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you get attached easily?

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Must confess, I'm attached to about 4 cuties! They are sooo cute, so hard to resist!!! Makes me want melt into a disgusting puddle of afc-ness! I find myself trying to get away any chance I get, just to clear my head!!! Thank God for my businesses, hobbies, and the library, my escape! Wish I was more like an unfeeling robot sometimes!

How about you? Have any strategies for getting adorable chicks out of your head?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You answered your own question: "cutieS!" Plural. Don't get attached to just one. spread the love like you are.
 

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You answered your own question: "cutieS!" Plural. Don't get attached to just one. spread the love like you are.
Thanks, will do! Appreciate it!
 

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deal with enough of them often and they soon become anything but adorable
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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And never forget the library...
 

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I feel absolutely the same. I can't fck a chick if I don't put at least a bit of emotion in. It makes things enjoyable and worthy.
 

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deal with enough of them often and they soon become anything but adorable
It's true.... Most only look adorable! Lol!

Not looking for perfection... There's got to be some sweeties out there somewhere... Or maybe it takes a man to tame future hags? Sounds like a job for Mr. Walk Away!!! LoL!!!
 

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