Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you get attached easily?

wifehunter

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Must confess, I'm attached to about 4 cuties! They are sooo cute, so hard to resist!!! Makes me want melt into a disgusting puddle of afc-ness! I find myself trying to get away any chance I get, just to clear my head!!! Thank God for my businesses, hobbies, and the library, my escape! Wish I was more like an unfeeling robot sometimes!

How about you? Have any strategies for getting adorable chicks out of your head?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You answered your own question: "cutieS!" Plural. Don't get attached to just one. spread the love like you are.
 

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You answered your own question: "cutieS!" Plural. Don't get attached to just one. spread the love like you are.
Thanks, will do! Appreciate it!
 

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deal with enough of them often and they soon become anything but adorable
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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And never forget the library...
 

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I feel absolutely the same. I can't fck a chick if I don't put at least a bit of emotion in. It makes things enjoyable and worthy.
 

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deal with enough of them often and they soon become anything but adorable
It's true.... Most only look adorable! Lol!

Not looking for perfection... There's got to be some sweeties out there somewhere... Or maybe it takes a man to tame future hags? Sounds like a job for Mr. Walk Away!!! LoL!!!
 

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