"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wifehunter

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Must confess, I'm attached to about 4 cuties! They are sooo cute, so hard to resist!!! Makes me want melt into a disgusting puddle of afc-ness! I find myself trying to get away any chance I get, just to clear my head!!! Thank God for my businesses, hobbies, and the library, my escape! Wish I was more like an unfeeling robot sometimes!

How about you? Have any strategies for getting adorable chicks out of your head?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You answered your own question: "cutieS!" Plural. Don't get attached to just one. spread the love like you are.
 

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You answered your own question: "cutieS!" Plural. Don't get attached to just one. spread the love like you are.
Thanks, will do! Appreciate it!
 

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deal with enough of them often and they soon become anything but adorable
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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And never forget the library...
 

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I feel absolutely the same. I can't fck a chick if I don't put at least a bit of emotion in. It makes things enjoyable and worthy.
 

wifehunter

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deal with enough of them often and they soon become anything but adorable
It's true.... Most only look adorable! Lol!

Not looking for perfection... There's got to be some sweeties out there somewhere... Or maybe it takes a man to tame future hags? Sounds like a job for Mr. Walk Away!!! LoL!!!
 

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