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Do you find yourself being a lot less cheap in tipping when wining & dining a gal?

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Everyone on here is telling me to stop wasting money on nice dinner dates, especially the first date if it's an OLD date.
 

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Everyone on here is telling me to stop wasting money on nice dinner dates, especially the first date if it's an OLD date.
I was referring to an earlier age when women were worth wining & dining early on.
 

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:
my opinion: Yes, I have definitely tipped more when taking out gals in the USA. :rolleyes:
I spend and tip the same. Usually I double the tax, so that's around 15%-18% depending if it's CT or NY. Although, there was this one time that server was horrible. Rude and nasty. I tipped zero. First time in my life I've done so.
 
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Nah, spend about the same. I def avoid dining dinner until sex, but drinks and small plates are all good. Really comes down to the server, I could be eating with my dad and if service is good I'll tip heavy, with a 10 and average service I'll tip normal. S
 

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Nah, spend about the same. I def avoid dining dinner until sex, but drinks and small plates are all good. Really comes down to the server, I could be eating with my dad and if service is good I'll tip heavy, with a 10 and average service I'll tip normal. S
So the next date I do you suggest just a couple drinks and maybe order an appetizer versus the whole meal BS which can add up?
 
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So the next date I do you suggest just a couple drinks and maybe order an appetizer versus the whole meal BS which can add up?
Yeah don't even go to places that serve meals, little wine bars, coffee shops that serve alcohol. From there have 1 one or two more locations (coach corey wayne tip), a dive bar for a quick beer, a scenic walk, a place to throw darts/shoot pool, even more ideal if the third location is your place. I have a bar at my house, pool, and karaoke/live band set up, def helps. When I was flat broke, had a mattress and an acoustic guitar, lets go play at my apartment. Make the best of your city and your set of cards.
 

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I would not be taking her to dinner unless she already spent time in my bed and I appreciate her.

only a thirsty man would buy a woman a dinner when she hasn’t even had sex with him.
 
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