Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I was referring to an earlier age when women were worth wining & dining early on.
I spend and tip the same. Usually I double the tax, so that's around 15%-18% depending if it's CT or NY. Although, there was this one time that server was horrible. Rude and nasty. I tipped zero. First time in my life I've done so.I was reading this, and it got me interested:
my opinion: Yes, I have definitely tipped more when taking out gals in the USA.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So the next date I do you suggest just a couple drinks and maybe order an appetizer versus the whole meal BS which can add up?
Yeah don't even go to places that serve meals, little wine bars, coffee shops that serve alcohol. From there have 1 one or two more locations (coach corey wayne tip), a dive bar for a quick beer, a scenic walk, a place to throw darts/shoot pool, even more ideal if the third location is your place. I have a bar at my house, pool, and karaoke/live band set up, def helps. When I was flat broke, had a mattress and an acoustic guitar, lets go play at my apartment. Make the best of your city and your set of cards.
