"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do you find it hard to be enthused when talking to Ugly girls ?

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There are times when your have to talk to ugly girls. You might be being a good wingman whilst your mate is working the HB9, or often the ugly girl is the alpha female you need to get on side before you can get to the HB9

Do you guys find it have to be motivated when talking to an ugly girl ?

YOur hormones just aren't switched on in the same way so your unless you concentrate, your game can fall apart.

And then when the ugly girl starts to get really interested in you, it's hard to sometimes not feel really icky.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I... DON'T talk to ugly girls. I don't like girls they bore the living SH1T out of me unless I am interested in them, in which case I don't notice how BORING they are because I only care about the cute ass they keep flaunting to me.

I really don't know why you would ever want to talk to a girl to be friends with. Forget the kind of chat you have with buddies, prepare to gossip, and not just gossip, but gossip about really uninteresting things. I mean I don't mind the "did you know *insert someone I know* crossdressed?!?!" But it's totally uninteresting and boring. Good lord. No wonder before you found out what your trousermouse is for you only had guy mates... Oh and that one really boisterous girl that will probably become a lesbian.

Do any of you guys actually talk to girls with the sole intention of being friends?
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"friends" isn't what teh OP had in mind, he specifically asked
There are times when your have to talk to ugly girls. You might be being a good wingman whilst your mate is working the HB9, or often the ugly girl is the alpha female you need to get on side before you can get to the HB9
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to OP, i don't find i need extra motivation, they're just another person i know, talk about whatever.

granted, i'm not going to game her, but there's no problem being 'Friendly". Notice i say friendly and not friends.

i don't think i'd be able to call myself a natural if i didn't do it with everybody. turning it on and off implies artificiallity.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I may be alone, but I don't mind talking to them...

I mean playing with them. I tend to work on my craft, but it's too damn easy. The ugly girls start fidgeting and can't speak.

I get a kick out of it, but it also makes the hot girls around get jealous.
 
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