"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you find it hard to be enthused when talking to Ugly girls ?

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There are times when your have to talk to ugly girls. You might be being a good wingman whilst your mate is working the HB9, or often the ugly girl is the alpha female you need to get on side before you can get to the HB9

Do you guys find it have to be motivated when talking to an ugly girl ?

YOur hormones just aren't switched on in the same way so your unless you concentrate, your game can fall apart.

And then when the ugly girl starts to get really interested in you, it's hard to sometimes not feel really icky.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Aragon034

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I... DON'T talk to ugly girls. I don't like girls they bore the living SH1T out of me unless I am interested in them, in which case I don't notice how BORING they are because I only care about the cute ass they keep flaunting to me.

I really don't know why you would ever want to talk to a girl to be friends with. Forget the kind of chat you have with buddies, prepare to gossip, and not just gossip, but gossip about really uninteresting things. I mean I don't mind the "did you know *insert someone I know* crossdressed?!?!" But it's totally uninteresting and boring. Good lord. No wonder before you found out what your trousermouse is for you only had guy mates... Oh and that one really boisterous girl that will probably become a lesbian.

Do any of you guys actually talk to girls with the sole intention of being friends?
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"friends" isn't what teh OP had in mind, he specifically asked
There are times when your have to talk to ugly girls. You might be being a good wingman whilst your mate is working the HB9, or often the ugly girl is the alpha female you need to get on side before you can get to the HB9
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to OP, i don't find i need extra motivation, they're just another person i know, talk about whatever.

granted, i'm not going to game her, but there's no problem being 'Friendly". Notice i say friendly and not friends.

i don't think i'd be able to call myself a natural if i didn't do it with everybody. turning it on and off implies artificiallity.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I may be alone, but I don't mind talking to them...

I mean playing with them. I tend to work on my craft, but it's too damn easy. The ugly girls start fidgeting and can't speak.

I get a kick out of it, but it also makes the hot girls around get jealous.
 
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