Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you find it hard to be enthused when talking to Ugly girls ?

Peterpack

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There are times when your have to talk to ugly girls. You might be being a good wingman whilst your mate is working the HB9, or often the ugly girl is the alpha female you need to get on side before you can get to the HB9

Do you guys find it have to be motivated when talking to an ugly girl ?

YOur hormones just aren't switched on in the same way so your unless you concentrate, your game can fall apart.

And then when the ugly girl starts to get really interested in you, it's hard to sometimes not feel really icky.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Aragon034

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Wolf said:
I... DON'T talk to ugly girls. I don't like girls they bore the living SH1T out of me unless I am interested in them, in which case I don't notice how BORING they are because I only care about the cute ass they keep flaunting to me.

I really don't know why you would ever want to talk to a girl to be friends with. Forget the kind of chat you have with buddies, prepare to gossip, and not just gossip, but gossip about really uninteresting things. I mean I don't mind the "did you know *insert someone I know* crossdressed?!?!" But it's totally uninteresting and boring. Good lord. No wonder before you found out what your trousermouse is for you only had guy mates... Oh and that one really boisterous girl that will probably become a lesbian.

Do any of you guys actually talk to girls with the sole intention of being friends?
"friends" isn't what teh OP had in mind, he specifically asked
There are times when your have to talk to ugly girls. You might be being a good wingman whilst your mate is working the HB9, or often the ugly girl is the alpha female you need to get on side before you can get to the HB9
to OP, i don't find i need extra motivation, they're just another person i know, talk about whatever.

granted, i'm not going to game her, but there's no problem being 'Friendly". Notice i say friendly and not friends.

i don't think i'd be able to call myself a natural if i didn't do it with everybody. turning it on and off implies artificiallity.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Master Disaster

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I may be alone, but I don't mind talking to them...

I mean playing with them. I tend to work on my craft, but it's too damn easy. The ugly girls start fidgeting and can't speak.

I get a kick out of it, but it also makes the hot girls around get jealous.
 
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