"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you find it fun making up theories?

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Half the **** on this board is make-believe.

I don't care though, making up theories is fun, a keyboard jockey can come up with great ideas and stories that a lot of women would fall for. Its just too bad that no woman ever hears any of these lines or ever gets to meet you guys.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Oh yeah??? PROVE IT!!! LETS SEE THE NUMBERS!!! :woo:
 

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And half the posters never leave their house... *ignored*
 

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I don't know what percentage of this site is BS, but I have field tested a good chunk of the info for myself to see what worked and what didn't...

A few of the ones that sounded good originally but didn't work (at least for me) :
- Carrying a book of sticky notes
- Feigning a kiss (going for it but moving around and saying 'not yet' in her ear)
among others that I can't think up at the moment.

That's why it's important to be smart about what you read and don't just taking it as truth without 'verifying' it for yourself.

Oh and BTW, Francisco that you ignored actually does have alot of valuable information to share.
 

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Bonez said:
Half the **** on this board is make-believe.

I don't care though, making up theories is fun, a keyboard jockey can come up with great ideas and stories that a lot of women would fall for. Its just too bad that no woman ever hears any of these lines or ever gets to meet you guys.
yea pretty much.
i'm currently working on one right now. one that will be revolutionary. one that will make any woman you meet wet. i can see it now:rolleyes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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So pimp its scary said:
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Oh and BTW, Francisco that you ignored actually does have alot of valuable information to share.
Don't sweat it, it's not mainstream so it's not palatable to everyone. ;)
 

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So pimp its scary said:
I- Feigning a kiss (going for it but moving around and saying 'not yet' in her ear)
That just cracks me up. I'mnot sure why, but it just seems like something from a Lifetime channel made for TV for ugly chicks special.
 

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That just cracks me up. I'mnot sure why, but it just seems like something from a Lifetime channel made for TV for ugly chicks special.
I thought it sounded okay, like for "building up" sexual anticipation. But realistically, she's either gonna be worried that you're not into her (and maybe say "what's wrong?" with a concrned look on her face, which kills the mood) or she'll think you're scared to kiss her and that you're a wuss.

What actually happened when you tried it?
 

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I tried it 3 times before I dropped it

1 - Like you said, she was like 'what's wrong?'
2 - I accidentally let our lips touch and so it felt so unnatural
3 - She just gave me a wierd look, kept talking... it didn't hurt as much as the other times but did nothing in terms of help.

When I first started I was willing to give everything a shot, it's part of why I've become fairly good at spotting liars by reading between the lines.
 
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