"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you find it fun making up theories?

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Half the **** on this board is make-believe.

I don't care though, making up theories is fun, a keyboard jockey can come up with great ideas and stories that a lot of women would fall for. Its just too bad that no woman ever hears any of these lines or ever gets to meet you guys.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Oh yeah??? PROVE IT!!! LETS SEE THE NUMBERS!!! :woo:
 

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And half the posters never leave their house... *ignored*
 

So pimp its scary

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I don't know what percentage of this site is BS, but I have field tested a good chunk of the info for myself to see what worked and what didn't...

A few of the ones that sounded good originally but didn't work (at least for me) :
- Carrying a book of sticky notes
- Feigning a kiss (going for it but moving around and saying 'not yet' in her ear)
among others that I can't think up at the moment.

That's why it's important to be smart about what you read and don't just taking it as truth without 'verifying' it for yourself.

Oh and BTW, Francisco that you ignored actually does have alot of valuable information to share.
 

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Bonez said:
Half the **** on this board is make-believe.

I don't care though, making up theories is fun, a keyboard jockey can come up with great ideas and stories that a lot of women would fall for. Its just too bad that no woman ever hears any of these lines or ever gets to meet you guys.
yea pretty much.
i'm currently working on one right now. one that will be revolutionary. one that will make any woman you meet wet. i can see it now:rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So pimp its scary said:
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Oh and BTW, Francisco that you ignored actually does have alot of valuable information to share.
Don't sweat it, it's not mainstream so it's not palatable to everyone. ;)
 

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So pimp its scary said:
I- Feigning a kiss (going for it but moving around and saying 'not yet' in her ear)
That just cracks me up. I'mnot sure why, but it just seems like something from a Lifetime channel made for TV for ugly chicks special.
 

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That just cracks me up. I'mnot sure why, but it just seems like something from a Lifetime channel made for TV for ugly chicks special.
I thought it sounded okay, like for "building up" sexual anticipation. But realistically, she's either gonna be worried that you're not into her (and maybe say "what's wrong?" with a concrned look on her face, which kills the mood) or she'll think you're scared to kiss her and that you're a wuss.

What actually happened when you tried it?
 

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I tried it 3 times before I dropped it

1 - Like you said, she was like 'what's wrong?'
2 - I accidentally let our lips touch and so it felt so unnatural
3 - She just gave me a wierd look, kept talking... it didn't hurt as much as the other times but did nothing in terms of help.

When I first started I was willing to give everything a shot, it's part of why I've become fairly good at spotting liars by reading between the lines.
 
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