"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you find it fun making up theories?

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Half the **** on this board is make-believe.

I don't care though, making up theories is fun, a keyboard jockey can come up with great ideas and stories that a lot of women would fall for. Its just too bad that no woman ever hears any of these lines or ever gets to meet you guys.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Oh yeah??? PROVE IT!!! LETS SEE THE NUMBERS!!! :woo:
 

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And half the posters never leave their house... *ignored*
 

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I don't know what percentage of this site is BS, but I have field tested a good chunk of the info for myself to see what worked and what didn't...

A few of the ones that sounded good originally but didn't work (at least for me) :
- Carrying a book of sticky notes
- Feigning a kiss (going for it but moving around and saying 'not yet' in her ear)
among others that I can't think up at the moment.

That's why it's important to be smart about what you read and don't just taking it as truth without 'verifying' it for yourself.

Oh and BTW, Francisco that you ignored actually does have alot of valuable information to share.
 

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Bonez said:
Half the **** on this board is make-believe.

I don't care though, making up theories is fun, a keyboard jockey can come up with great ideas and stories that a lot of women would fall for. Its just too bad that no woman ever hears any of these lines or ever gets to meet you guys.
yea pretty much.
i'm currently working on one right now. one that will be revolutionary. one that will make any woman you meet wet. i can see it now:rolleyes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So pimp its scary said:
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Oh and BTW, Francisco that you ignored actually does have alot of valuable information to share.
Don't sweat it, it's not mainstream so it's not palatable to everyone. ;)
 

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So pimp its scary said:
I- Feigning a kiss (going for it but moving around and saying 'not yet' in her ear)
That just cracks me up. I'mnot sure why, but it just seems like something from a Lifetime channel made for TV for ugly chicks special.
 

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That just cracks me up. I'mnot sure why, but it just seems like something from a Lifetime channel made for TV for ugly chicks special.
I thought it sounded okay, like for "building up" sexual anticipation. But realistically, she's either gonna be worried that you're not into her (and maybe say "what's wrong?" with a concrned look on her face, which kills the mood) or she'll think you're scared to kiss her and that you're a wuss.

What actually happened when you tried it?
 

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I tried it 3 times before I dropped it

1 - Like you said, she was like 'what's wrong?'
2 - I accidentally let our lips touch and so it felt so unnatural
3 - She just gave me a wierd look, kept talking... it didn't hurt as much as the other times but did nothing in terms of help.

When I first started I was willing to give everything a shot, it's part of why I've become fairly good at spotting liars by reading between the lines.
 
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