"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you feel bad about cutting loose some plates?

Lexington

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Sometimes, there are girls who you aren't really into, but they are REALLY into you. It's quite a boost to your ego to have someone like you that much. But there are just better prospects out there and you have limited roster space. Does it sometimes pain you to have to disappoint people like that?

I guess I can kind of sympathize with these gals. I was once that chump trying incredibly hard to impress a girl who wasn't into me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Its easy to cut the ones loose that you have very little attraction for.Its alot harder with the ones that really get your dlck hard!!;)
 
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Refer to the catman.

It's only human to feel bad for hurting another, our male sense of justice puts us on the wrong side of the scale; where there is pain, there is also retribution and comeuppance.

Still, the aspiration is to rise above all these weak human trappings we carry and to continually evolve into something monolithic, impervious to all save the greatest wisdom.

I was yesterday a blob of semen, tomorrow a pile of dust long forgotten; today is all that I have, and why should I burden it with regret?

Keep moving forward.
 

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No.

Do you think they feel bad when they dump you?

Forget them. Besides, if they are decent looking they will be hopping on a new d!ck before you can even contemplate how they feel after you dump them.
 

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It's always better being the one doing the dumping than the one being dumped.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not anymore.

Much like a mutant who could possibly regrow an arm everytime it's cut off, the effect of losing a limb (much like a plate) would eventually dull until it's become common practice.

Since it's a plate, it can easily be replaced.
 
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