"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do you feel bad about cutting loose some plates?

Lexington

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Sometimes, there are girls who you aren't really into, but they are REALLY into you. It's quite a boost to your ego to have someone like you that much. But there are just better prospects out there and you have limited roster space. Does it sometimes pain you to have to disappoint people like that?

I guess I can kind of sympathize with these gals. I was once that chump trying incredibly hard to impress a girl who wasn't into me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Its easy to cut the ones loose that you have very little attraction for.Its alot harder with the ones that really get your dlck hard!!;)
 
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Julius_Seizeher

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Refer to the catman.

It's only human to feel bad for hurting another, our male sense of justice puts us on the wrong side of the scale; where there is pain, there is also retribution and comeuppance.

Still, the aspiration is to rise above all these weak human trappings we carry and to continually evolve into something monolithic, impervious to all save the greatest wisdom.

I was yesterday a blob of semen, tomorrow a pile of dust long forgotten; today is all that I have, and why should I burden it with regret?

Keep moving forward.
 

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No.

Do you think they feel bad when they dump you?

Forget them. Besides, if they are decent looking they will be hopping on a new d!ck before you can even contemplate how they feel after you dump them.
 

L B

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It's always better being the one doing the dumping than the one being dumped.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kailex

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Not anymore.

Much like a mutant who could possibly regrow an arm everytime it's cut off, the effect of losing a limb (much like a plate) would eventually dull until it's become common practice.

Since it's a plate, it can easily be replaced.
 
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