"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do you feel bad about cutting loose some plates?

Lexington

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Sometimes, there are girls who you aren't really into, but they are REALLY into you. It's quite a boost to your ego to have someone like you that much. But there are just better prospects out there and you have limited roster space. Does it sometimes pain you to have to disappoint people like that?

I guess I can kind of sympathize with these gals. I was once that chump trying incredibly hard to impress a girl who wasn't into me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Its easy to cut the ones loose that you have very little attraction for.Its alot harder with the ones that really get your dlck hard!!;)
 
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Julius_Seizeher

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Refer to the catman.

It's only human to feel bad for hurting another, our male sense of justice puts us on the wrong side of the scale; where there is pain, there is also retribution and comeuppance.

Still, the aspiration is to rise above all these weak human trappings we carry and to continually evolve into something monolithic, impervious to all save the greatest wisdom.

I was yesterday a blob of semen, tomorrow a pile of dust long forgotten; today is all that I have, and why should I burden it with regret?

Keep moving forward.
 

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No.

Do you think they feel bad when they dump you?

Forget them. Besides, if they are decent looking they will be hopping on a new d!ck before you can even contemplate how they feel after you dump them.
 

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It's always better being the one doing the dumping than the one being dumped.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not anymore.

Much like a mutant who could possibly regrow an arm everytime it's cut off, the effect of losing a limb (much like a plate) would eventually dull until it's become common practice.

Since it's a plate, it can easily be replaced.
 
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