“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you ever worry about spitting out the pill one day?

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I feel strong most days and carry myself as one but I feel like If I ever meet a girl that i'll probably spit the pill back out (even tho I don't want too.) I don't feel like I could ever go back learning how the game is really played but I still have that feeling of uncertainty sometimes.

How do you deal with this exactly? More of a way to prevent this if it ever happens.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The second step on mastering the game is to become part of it , to make it part of your flesh. If you have succeeded on this step ,you will never spit the pill out.

If you believe what you wrote , you have to start again from the basics.
 

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Fvck no.
 

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That's why I'm still active here. Stay in the loop. Read. Always be looking to improve. You won't spit it out unless you knowingly do so.
 

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You can't "unlearn" the truth, so no.
 

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Sometimes I worry, yet that's the great thing about prospective. If you're smart, you take a hard look at yourself and ask yourself what needs improving.

What actions, words made her or other plates interest level drop enough to reject or break up with you?

Write down the weaknesses on a paper, journal and eliminate them to the best of your abilities.

Practice affirmations, continue approaching, exercising, reading interesting subjects, career, etc.

When you begin to notice that you're continually coming from a frame of abundance and less scarcity mindset; you'll worry less about "spitting out a pill."
 

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Never. I have done what NSX-R had said and made it apart of me. I have completely indulged the red pill at this point and not only that, I have let it work through, get absorbed, and pass through my system. I have gone through all the stages of it (first shock/realization, incorporation, rage and bitterness towards women, and now acceptance). I have accepted how women are and realize that I cannot change them, but that I can change myself and that in turn will change how they act towards me.

One thing I have realized though, is that most of the things I learned in the manosphere were essentially things I already knew deep down inside. All I really needed to do was re-embrace them. I was once a free soul back when I was a very young kid, and society portraying how social interactions should be like were unnatural for me and thus fvxked me over. I have since re-embraced most, but not all, of my true self. I am never going to allow myself to be directly influenced by society or by others ever again. I need to become who I once was. The closest I got to reachieving transcension was when I was 15, and a bit before I discovered this place. I had reached the absolute pinnacle of self-actualization. I need to get back to that point, and I might be getting closer to it soon.

So to answer your question in a nutshell OP: No, I cannot. Nor will I ever try to unlearn what I have now ingrained within myself.
 

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I have accepted how women are and realize that I cannot change them, but that I can change myself and that in turn will change how they act towards me.
This a thousand times. Remember the three spheres of incluence:

Sphere one : Things you control
Sphere two : Things you can influence
Sphere three: Things beyond your control and influence

After you internalize the mindset its is there to stay, keep cultivating it and it will become second nature. Along the way you will notice it sticking more and more.
 

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Once a man starts to apply different principles to life and sees results, it's pretty difficult to turn back to the old blue-pill lifestyle. It's a bit like asking would you revert back to crawling on your hands and knees, once you have learned to walk upright.

Old habits die hard, and mistakes are made in the early days. But continued learning, revision and self reflection keeps us honest and progressing.
 

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there are guys who spit out the red pill and become beta white knights to get pvssy, don't become one of those guys, you'll only end up cucked, stay safe brothers.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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