Zippapants
Don Juan
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I don't despise women for being women. It's like getting mad at a dog for being a dog. Rather, I've grateful for my understanding of how things work.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yep, I'm more mad at the guys who keep letting them get away with this sh!t and encouraging their behavior.ebracer05 said:I don't despise women. But If I'm going to get on anyone's case it would be the men.
Would attention wh*res exist if all of the beta guys out there weren't constantly feeding them attention?
Would the princesses exist if there were not scores of men affirming her identity?
If men respected themselves enough to expect respect from others, including women, would there be flakes, b*tches, a high population of fat chicks (or the corollary, women who have nothing going for them except their appearance), or the friend zone?
If men never abdicated their position in society as men, do you think the "typical" woman's behavior would be acceptable right now? The reason women are the way they are is because men allow them to be.
You can get mad at women for acting like they do, but it's ultimately in reaction to men. If you want to have a problem with someone, make friends with a beta who's contributing to the problems you read about regarding women.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Great post!!! Every guy here needs to read this!Iceberg said:I don't think it's as bad as the people in here make it sound. Don't get me wrong, there is game-playing, etc. And some of them think their puzzies are made of gold. But there are plenty of normal people in the world.
You gotta realize that the reason you're angry is because you're listening to angry men. The guys who are happy, and have a healthy "you win some/you lose some" attitude towards dating are not here. Well, some are. But there's a lot of anger here.
I realized that myself - which is why I'm slowly spending less and less time here. The guys here are great. But man, I have friends who are successful with women. And they are NOT this angry. They don't despise women. They're aware of women's games, but they dont care. It's just a part of life.
You date a few girls. Most don't work out. Some do. Then, eventually those don't work out either. And that's life.
As much as I see a sense of entitlement from women, I see a sense of entitlement from men here. As if the world is supposed to fall to your feet just because you get out of bed in the morning. Not you specifically. But in general here.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Great post by Iceberg, that says about all you need to know.Iceberg said:I don't think it's as bad as the people in here make it sound. Don't get me wrong, there is game-playing, etc. And some of them think their puzzies are made of gold. But there are plenty of normal people in the world.
You gotta realize that the reason you're angry is because you're listening to angry men. The guys who are happy, and have a healthy "you win some/you lose some" attitude towards dating are not here. Well, some are. But there's a lot of anger here.
I realized that myself - which is why I'm slowly spending less and less time here. The guys here are great. But man, I have friends who are successful with women. And they are NOT this angry. They don't despise women. They're aware of women's games, but they dont care. It's just a part of life.
You date a few girls. Most don't work out. Some do. Then, eventually those don't work out either. And that's life.
As much as I see a sense of entitlement from women, I see a sense of entitlement from men here. As if the world is supposed to fall to your feet just because you get out of bed in the morning. Not you specifically. But in general here.
There are some guys who don't get sh!t on by women, for whatever reason. I've known a few.cola said:I love women. They have always been good to me.
I don't have a horror story .. Maybe I'm lucky, but I usually find chill down to earth girls.
Tictac said:If you ascribe to womens' behavior anything more that amusement, you really are taking this too seriously.
Really amusement? :trouble:Tictac said:If you ascribe to womens' behavior anything more that amusement, you really are taking this too seriously.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
----Burroughs said:guy has to sign a waiver that he might be raped in jail because of a greedy ex-wife and he should be amused?....men need to start getting their heads out of their azzes and see what the fvck is going on.
wow :crackup:Tictac said:----
You are confusing the legal system with what goes on in womens' heads.
I've not been jailed (yet) by my ex. But if that happens, its the courts that will do it.
Yeah, pretty much. They are the less honorable of the sexes no doubt. But we let them get away with it and even encourage it so who should we really be mad at here?JohnChops said:Ever since I started on this forum and reading everything on here, it has made me kind of "hate" women in the sense that I would never let one tie me down because of how terrible I think they are. Like all the games they play, how they think there pvssies are made of gold, and more. Anyone else ever find themselves thinking this way about women?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.