"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do you control your thinking about her?

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sam21

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I do control my thinking about her because nothing good comes from it.. besides the momentary pleasure it may give you.

But there are some-like situation that are more confusing.

Like..

I know she was chatting with this friend of mine, but I was ignoring her... then I went to the bathroom and when I came back the 2 of them were disconnected, so I was going to check the time they went offline to see if they both went offline at the same time, and I realized that that was good for the information.. but bad for the inner peace and for the emotions and for the state of mind I want and need to have in order to succed with her.

soo.. I'm not completely sure about the point of this, so I'll get it more simple:

Do you control your thinking about her? :)

I think you should not let a girl put in danger your confidence, even if that means ignoring some good information. And you should not play it like "oh, I'm super confident I'll check the events viewer because I can handle the emotions"

That's wrong, that's an illusion... an excuse. I think it's a common trap in every of us.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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don't ask questions if you don't want to hear the answer.defintely. this issomething i had to deal with alot in my first LTR.
 
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