"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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do you comment on womens selfies?

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I understand we view it as a orbiter move.

However I noticed a guy comment on a womans selfie the other (I will give the guy credit he was ripped), however his social skills were pretty "jock"

he told the girl "she looked snack ready"

interestingly she went full on giggly chat mode with him in the side comments on facebook. offering to cook him steak the lot

interesting observation
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm not a big fan on social media game since most women use thirst traps to garner validation from their harem of orbiters. However, to address your observation. Just like in real world interactions, if a girl finds you attractive and is into you, everything you say is witty and flirty; if she doesn't, then everything you say is creepy. Same concept here with the ripped guy. The difference is, commenting exposes you to the world.

If you're going to try and hit on girls through social media, do it through her DMs so at least you don't expose yourself to the world. That's unnecessary and serves no purpose. If she was going to respond to his comment, she would have responded to his DM just the same if not more overtly sexual if she was really into him. Women will be conservative in their public replies as well as their slut shield comes into play. There really isn't a scenario where a public comment would work in your favor over a DM.
 

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I understand we view it as a orbiter move.

However I noticed a guy comment on a womans selfie the other (I will give the guy credit he was ripped), however his social skills were pretty "jock"

he told the girl "she looked snack ready"

interestingly she went full on giggly chat mode with him in the side comments on facebook. offering to cook him steak the lot

interesting observation
Guess he wanted to munch on her p-sleeve..

I do not believe I've ever liked a selfie; unless I was in it. However, the last time I was on social media was 2014.
 

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I understand we view it as a orbiter move.

However I noticed a guy comment on a womans selfie the other (I will give the guy credit he was ripped), however his social skills were pretty "jock"

he told the girl "she looked snack ready"

interestingly she went full on giggly chat mode with him in the side comments on facebook. offering to cook him steak the lot

interesting observation
I once told a girl on Facebook "you look tasty" and ended up banging.

It can work, but you have to choose the right girls.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Never. I just assume it’s attention seeking expedition for her and will lead to nothing other than me being like every other guy/ orbiter.
 

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I never did understand why so many guys did it, when has a girl ever responded positively to simp comments? You would think these guys would realise it doesn't work
But honestly if you look at Instagram... 99% of the compliments they get are from other girls
 

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I never did understand why so many guys did it, when has a girl ever responded positively to simp comments? You would think these guys would realise it doesn't work
99% of simp comments, get a simple thumbs up or a smile emoji.. Wtf
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I noticed (well I noticed since Im out from social media) that most of the times it was girls telling each other how cute they were, then returning the favour on each other profile.
 

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I wish they’d come out with a downvote, I’d use that all the time lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you're going to try and hit on girls through social media, do it through her DMs so at least you don't expose yourself to the world. That's unnecessary and serves no purpose. If she was going to respond to his comment, she would have responded to his DM just the same if not more overtly sexual if she was really into him. Women will be conservative in their public replies as well as their slut shield comes into play. There really isn't a scenario where a public comment would work in your favor over a DM.
be under no illusion them DM's are immediately screenshot and funnelled into multiple WhatsApp and other messaging group chats for dissection there is nowhere to hide anymore ( unless you can get her onto snapchat)

i genuinely think we are at a stage in hyper connectivity now where it doesn't matter what you say or where you say it she will either like it and respond or just ignore you
 

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I wish they’d come out with a downvote, I’d use that all the time lol
Hilarious.

And any negative comments are immediately deleted, blocked, and reported to the local PD as harassment.

You either agree that she's a princess, or burn in hell!
 

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the reason for the post was because I felt the woman was simping for him, purely by him commenting and being ripped(important factor)
 

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I never like a woman's selfie, even if it gives me a hardon. I will not validate her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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