"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do You Check Out Other Girls When Around The Girl You Like?

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This is probably an AFC question but I'm curious does this hurt your chances? Occasionally, there are just one too many attractive females in the vicinity and I can't help but look.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No. Bad experience.

Very few girls do the chasing game and enjoy being jealous.

Usually they would just roll their eyes, call me a d*ck and walk and talk to someone else.
 
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if I see something I like, I look. Even point out how good other females look to the girls i'm with. I like to think it keeps them on their toes
 
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Babnik said:
No. Bad experience.

Very few girls do the chasing game and enjoy being jealous.

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You clearly know f**k all about women if you honestly believe this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BrokenLeftWing said:
if I see something I like, I look. Even point out how good other females look to the girls i'm with.
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Same as me...
 
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Ripper said:
You clearly know f**k all about women if you honestly believe this.
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Maybe because I take it from experience, and not from basement nerds' advice?
 
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I think Babnik is right.
If you're with a girl that's anything more than casual then don't be blatantly checking out other women.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
I think Babnik is right.
If you're with a girl that's anything more than casual then don't be blatantly checking out other women.
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I know I am right. There is the real life and there is SoSuave.

In real life when I talk to a single girl and then a hottie comes by and I suddenly stop giving attention to the girl I was talking to in order to look at another babe - the original babe BAILS.

Maybe this crap works on super hot spoiled brats in LA, but I am not in LA and girls here aren't like that!
 
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Babnik said:
I know I am right. There is the real life and there is SoSuave.

In real life when I talk to a single girl and then a hottie comes by and I suddenly stop giving attention to the girl I was talking to in order to look at another babe - the original babe BAILS.

Maybe this crap works on super hot spoiled brats in LA, but I am not in LA and girls here aren't like that!
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I think the first poster talks about a girl you are already are dating, or at least that was my first impression when I read the post, and then yes, I mention other good looking girls that are around and stuff like that.

If on the other hand he talks about a girl you just approached then you should keep your eyes focused on her eyes ;)
 
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You can still check out other girls, just don't be so obvious about it. Wait til she's not looking and sneak a peek.
 
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