You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You clearly know f**k all about women if you honestly believe this.Babnik said:No. Bad experience.
Very few girls do the chasing game and enjoy being jealous.
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Same as me...BrokenLeftWing said:if I see something I like, I look. Even point out how good other females look to the girls i'm with.
Maybe because I take it from experience, and not from basement nerds' advice?Ripper said:You clearly know f**k all about women if you honestly believe this.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I know I am right. There is the real life and there is SoSuave.Teflon_Mcgee said:I think Babnik is right.
If you're with a girl that's anything more than casual then don't be blatantly checking out other women.
I think the first poster talks about a girl you are already are dating, or at least that was my first impression when I read the post, and then yes, I mention other good looking girls that are around and stuff like that.Babnik said:I know I am right. There is the real life and there is SoSuave.
In real life when I talk to a single girl and then a hottie comes by and I suddenly stop giving attention to the girl I was talking to in order to look at another babe - the original babe BAILS.
Maybe this crap works on super hot spoiled brats in LA, but I am not in LA and girls here aren't like that!