"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do You Check Out Other Girls When Around The Girl You Like?

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This is probably an AFC question but I'm curious does this hurt your chances? Occasionally, there are just one too many attractive females in the vicinity and I can't help but look.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No. Bad experience.

Very few girls do the chasing game and enjoy being jealous.

Usually they would just roll their eyes, call me a d*ck and walk and talk to someone else.
 
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if I see something I like, I look. Even point out how good other females look to the girls i'm with. I like to think it keeps them on their toes
 
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Babnik said:
No. Bad experience.

Very few girls do the chasing game and enjoy being jealous.

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You clearly know f**k all about women if you honestly believe this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BrokenLeftWing said:
if I see something I like, I look. Even point out how good other females look to the girls i'm with.
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Same as me...
 
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Ripper said:
You clearly know f**k all about women if you honestly believe this.
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Maybe because I take it from experience, and not from basement nerds' advice?
 
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I think Babnik is right.
If you're with a girl that's anything more than casual then don't be blatantly checking out other women.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
I think Babnik is right.
If you're with a girl that's anything more than casual then don't be blatantly checking out other women.
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I know I am right. There is the real life and there is SoSuave.

In real life when I talk to a single girl and then a hottie comes by and I suddenly stop giving attention to the girl I was talking to in order to look at another babe - the original babe BAILS.

Maybe this crap works on super hot spoiled brats in LA, but I am not in LA and girls here aren't like that!
 
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Babnik said:
I know I am right. There is the real life and there is SoSuave.

In real life when I talk to a single girl and then a hottie comes by and I suddenly stop giving attention to the girl I was talking to in order to look at another babe - the original babe BAILS.

Maybe this crap works on super hot spoiled brats in LA, but I am not in LA and girls here aren't like that!
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I think the first poster talks about a girl you are already are dating, or at least that was my first impression when I read the post, and then yes, I mention other good looking girls that are around and stuff like that.

If on the other hand he talks about a girl you just approached then you should keep your eyes focused on her eyes ;)
 
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You can still check out other girls, just don't be so obvious about it. Wait til she's not looking and sneak a peek.
 
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