Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
I think a better way of asking the question is your looks vs. your ‘inner’ qualities. like personality, kindness, humor, ambition…. Since most men are not handsome, They have to conclude the latter is what attracts her.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Do you care if a woman is with you more for your looks rather than who you are?
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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It matters a lot. Just wait til you come on hard times, and you will at some point. One will leave you in a heartbeat, the other will stick it out through thick and thin.
FlexpertHamilton
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Women don't care about a man's inner qualities unless he meets the prerequisite "external" qualities like attractiveness, height, wealth, etc first. Obviously it's not so cut and dry though. Even if you're attractive and wealthy you still need a personality, hobbies, etc.