Do you believe you have to be good in bed to keep a fvck buddy?

[Who Dares Win]

I somehow accepted that my sexual performances are average at the most if not lower, Im lazy and egoist plus I made most of my experience through fvck buddies and one night stands so didnt really have a gf to give me honest feedbacks.

Anyway I have girls that I banged that not only keep themselves around me (even after months of no talking) but also give me their bodies, some even tell me that they like me and reject guys which are visibly more good looking than me.

Dont get me wrong Im not complaining or trying to be a better lover, just wanted to know how to keep such options (precious options during dry spells) and create even more.

I exclude that they consider me boyfriend material since I treat them poorly, talk dirty to them and make clear Im not interested in a relationship with them.

I had other girls in similar situations and those dont talk to me anymore not even reply to texts, trying to find out whats keeping these ones since temporarily talking they all come from 2013-14.

 

[Spyr0]

Yes you do! Would you go back to a chick that was boring in bed?

Hooking up again later down the line will depend on the lasting impression you left before drifting apart and her current circumstances. (E.g new rich boyfriend or long dry spell)

If you were the best she ever had its only going to increase the chances of a lay.

I'd recommend finding new plates to spin, usually people drift apart for a reason.

 

[cola]

Here is the thing..
Sex with a female is 100% mental.
If you have sex with a girl and perform exactly the same and her interest level is like 90% she will think its great.
The exact same performance and her IL is like 50% she may not like it..
Hope that makes sense.

 

[skinnyguy]

I sucked in bed when I was 20 but my gf thought I was God's gift to earth. She said "I'll never break up with you" and wanted to have my kids. So I agree with cola.

 

[guru1000]

Yes, if her SMV is higher than yours.
No, if her SMV is lower.
Maybe, if it's the same.

 

[El Payaso]

It depends on many factors.

Your interest level, her interest level, your SMV, her SMV etc.

 

[WanderingMan]

I agree with cola as well.

Why do you believe you're bad in bed?

I've completely ravaged a chick, been as selfish as can be - and she has loved it. Don't think you have to spend two hours eating out a woman for you to be a great "lover" - that's faulty conditioning.