"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you believe lifting heavy removes sex drive?

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Im not talking about overtraining, my diet is satisfactory and my push/pull routine 4 days a week made me the strongest I've ever been even more than my late 20s.
I reached performances that I couldnt even dream about in my 20s in terms of strenght, intensity and endurance.

However I notice that my sex drive is not as high as it should be, I've never been one of those super horny guys..a couple of of times per night have always been enough.
But now it really takes a hot girl to turn me on and no stress involved, thinking about girls I banged in past and at those conditions makes me question my previous choices.

Anyone can relate?
Btw morning wood is fine so erotic dreams at night and early morning.

Could be high levels of cortisol and prolactine post workout that dont decrease due to tight traning schedule? mon+tues then thu+fri
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sh*t no, lifting heavy should be increasing your sex drive. IMO the biggest reason testosterone levels have decreased on average is that men aren't working as hard physically (in one way or another) any more. Lifting heavy can only help.

Do some squats or deadlifts.
 

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No not necessarily. Lifting heavy on a regular base might just tire you out and set your priorities straight. You are simply focusing on your goals more and as a result you take emphasis off of fantasizing about women. I think it's better this way. You get more done in life when you're not distracted.
 

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Call it overtraining or not, that's exactly what it sounds like. This is something that tends to occur when the body needs a break.

Heavy lifting should be done in cycles, not on a continual basis. The CNS burns out eventually.

A surefire way is to check your pulse before getting out of bed in the AM...if it's 8 BPM or more higher than normal your body is in a state of overtraining whether you think it is or not.
 

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shouldnt thats fatigue if it does.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Im not talking about overtraining, my diet is satisfactory and my push/pull routine 4 days a week made me the strongest I've ever been even more than my late 20s.
I reached performances that I couldnt even dream about in my 20s in terms of strenght, intensity and endurance.

However I notice that my sex drive is not as high as it should be, I've never been one of those super horny guys..a couple of of times per night have always been enough.
But now it really takes a hot girl to turn me on and no stress involved, thinking about girls I banged in past and at those conditions makes me question my previous choices.

Anyone can relate?
Btw morning wood is fine so erotic dreams at night and early morning.

Could be high levels of cortisol and prolactine post workout that dont decrease due to tight traning schedule? mon+tues then thu+fri
Im exactly the same. I try to not masturbate to compensate and it seems to work a little but I am afraid that too many years of depression and high levels of cortisol has made me older than I really am or put my testosterone on a low level. I seem to recall that when my body fat is low I was more horny but I feel weaker when lifting.

We should check testo levels for the heck of it
 

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Actually yeah it does. there was a study that came out on that just today.
 
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