Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you believe lifting heavy removes sex drive?

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Im not talking about overtraining, my diet is satisfactory and my push/pull routine 4 days a week made me the strongest I've ever been even more than my late 20s.
I reached performances that I couldnt even dream about in my 20s in terms of strenght, intensity and endurance.

However I notice that my sex drive is not as high as it should be, I've never been one of those super horny guys..a couple of of times per night have always been enough.
But now it really takes a hot girl to turn me on and no stress involved, thinking about girls I banged in past and at those conditions makes me question my previous choices.

Anyone can relate?
Btw morning wood is fine so erotic dreams at night and early morning.

Could be high levels of cortisol and prolactine post workout that dont decrease due to tight traning schedule? mon+tues then thu+fri
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sh*t no, lifting heavy should be increasing your sex drive. IMO the biggest reason testosterone levels have decreased on average is that men aren't working as hard physically (in one way or another) any more. Lifting heavy can only help.

Do some squats or deadlifts.
 

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No not necessarily. Lifting heavy on a regular base might just tire you out and set your priorities straight. You are simply focusing on your goals more and as a result you take emphasis off of fantasizing about women. I think it's better this way. You get more done in life when you're not distracted.
 

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Call it overtraining or not, that's exactly what it sounds like. This is something that tends to occur when the body needs a break.

Heavy lifting should be done in cycles, not on a continual basis. The CNS burns out eventually.

A surefire way is to check your pulse before getting out of bed in the AM...if it's 8 BPM or more higher than normal your body is in a state of overtraining whether you think it is or not.
 

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shouldnt thats fatigue if it does.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Im not talking about overtraining, my diet is satisfactory and my push/pull routine 4 days a week made me the strongest I've ever been even more than my late 20s.
I reached performances that I couldnt even dream about in my 20s in terms of strenght, intensity and endurance.

However I notice that my sex drive is not as high as it should be, I've never been one of those super horny guys..a couple of of times per night have always been enough.
But now it really takes a hot girl to turn me on and no stress involved, thinking about girls I banged in past and at those conditions makes me question my previous choices.

Anyone can relate?
Btw morning wood is fine so erotic dreams at night and early morning.

Could be high levels of cortisol and prolactine post workout that dont decrease due to tight traning schedule? mon+tues then thu+fri
Im exactly the same. I try to not masturbate to compensate and it seems to work a little but I am afraid that too many years of depression and high levels of cortisol has made me older than I really am or put my testosterone on a low level. I seem to recall that when my body fat is low I was more horny but I feel weaker when lifting.

We should check testo levels for the heck of it
 

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Actually yeah it does. there was a study that came out on that just today.
 
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