“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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do you bang girls you dont really find attractive?

pyros

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Hi, I have this question.
Do you bang or date girls you dont really find attractive (HB5-6) while you0re looking for something better?


Thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who Dares Win

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No way I would ever date a girl that I dont find attractive, that would really depress me and put me in a bad mood even if I wanted.

Regarding banging them I did it some time either for cleaning the pipe in case of dry spells or just to make my notch count grow, after you reached a minimum number of bangs you no longer feel such a urge of self validating yourself.

So one thing is banging and an other is dating.
 

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I asked about this recently, and received a bunch of responses basically calling me an AFC still. Here is how I look at it: As long as you're honest when asked about your views on you two baning, you are not doing anything wrong. People get together and hook up all the time. That is nothing new. Just don't lead them on, or lie to them, because then you're an @sshole. The dreaded question is going to come eventually...be prepared to answer it, and be prepared that you're probably going to hurt her, but just be honest, and tell her that every memory with her was a good one.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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its good to have them in your back pockets when the 8 9 and 10's act dumb,at least you know you can get some when you want to,ltr dating no way dude.
 

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I had an opportunity to bang 2 chicks last year that I didn't find attractive and hell no I tried to imagine banging them and I couldn't get turned on by that alone now imagine I had them naked in the bed? I was worried about getting a hard on. So I ask my self, how am I suppose to get a hard on by banging a girl I don't find attractive?
 

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Jair213 said:
I had an opportunity to bang 2 chicks last year that I didn't find attractive and hell no I tried to imagine banging them and I couldn't get turned on by that alone now imagine I had them naked in the bed? I was worried about getting a hard on. So I ask my self, how am I suppose to get a hard on by banging a girl I don't find attractive?
ever heard of a " double bag" ? :crackup: :crackup:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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plate's_empty

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switch said:
ever heard of a " double bag" ? :crackup: :crackup:
You wear one too just in case hers falls off?

Yeah, "not attractive" I'm guessing means you wouldn't take her out to dinner or bring her around your friends. 5's and 6's.... like one of the posters said, they're great for dry spells. Sometimes jerking it's better but a lot of the "not attractive" girls have some redeeming qualitys you can focus on. I'm not a big fan of banging ugos or fatties even when I'm **** canned. But taking down a few 5's and 6's can keep you from reeking of desperation while you're trying to bag an 8 or a 9.
 

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do you bang girls you dont really find attractive?

If you have any weird kinks or sick twisted sh!t you'd like to do to a woman, they are great for that.
 

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Girls I find 100% unattractive, no. But usually with 5s and 6s there's stuff about them that I do find attractive and stuff I don't. That's why they're 5s and not 10s or 1s.

So a girl might have a fantastic set of tits but be pretty darn ugly. I'll just bang her and look at the tits ;) Or if she's cute but chubby she can always give bl*wjobs. Or if she's not bangable at all she can introduce me to women who are.

You can always find good use for a girl you're not all that into. :D
 

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When I first started out I would settle for 5s for experience. This was merely nights when I was drunk and needed some booty. As I got better thought I would refuse to settle. I had a fb that wasn't particularly attractive, but it was convenient and I didn't have to deal with any bs. She was down for whatever. I'm in a LTR now and she's probably a 7, but if I was single, I wouldn't settle for anything less than a 6 unless I was in a huge dry spell.

BTW don't underestimate these girls especially in the BJ department. Fat girl=best BJ I ever had.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No. Can't shoot pool with rope.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Fat girl=best BJ I ever had.

I have said the same thing many times.

I concur, but the sight of them without clothes on makes me feel ashamed/sickened afterwards...

I decided I'd rather have my hand than see that.
 

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"Every loser in Vegas thinks they can do better! You know what winners do? They walk away from the table while they're up! " Coakley
 

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This may sound strange....

I'd much rather hook up with a chick with a bad body but an amazing face. Face it (no pun), you have to deal with that face for 98% of the time you are not having sex with her and they can always improve their bodies to some extent.

I have messed around with a few girls with great bodies and bad faces. I had trouble keeping it hard!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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