"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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do you bang girls you dont really find attractive?

pyros

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Hi, I have this question.
Do you bang or date girls you dont really find attractive (HB5-6) while you0re looking for something better?


Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Who Dares Win

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No way I would ever date a girl that I dont find attractive, that would really depress me and put me in a bad mood even if I wanted.

Regarding banging them I did it some time either for cleaning the pipe in case of dry spells or just to make my notch count grow, after you reached a minimum number of bangs you no longer feel such a urge of self validating yourself.

So one thing is banging and an other is dating.
 

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I asked about this recently, and received a bunch of responses basically calling me an AFC still. Here is how I look at it: As long as you're honest when asked about your views on you two baning, you are not doing anything wrong. People get together and hook up all the time. That is nothing new. Just don't lead them on, or lie to them, because then you're an @sshole. The dreaded question is going to come eventually...be prepared to answer it, and be prepared that you're probably going to hurt her, but just be honest, and tell her that every memory with her was a good one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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its good to have them in your back pockets when the 8 9 and 10's act dumb,at least you know you can get some when you want to,ltr dating no way dude.
 

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I had an opportunity to bang 2 chicks last year that I didn't find attractive and hell no I tried to imagine banging them and I couldn't get turned on by that alone now imagine I had them naked in the bed? I was worried about getting a hard on. So I ask my self, how am I suppose to get a hard on by banging a girl I don't find attractive?
 

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Jair213 said:
I had an opportunity to bang 2 chicks last year that I didn't find attractive and hell no I tried to imagine banging them and I couldn't get turned on by that alone now imagine I had them naked in the bed? I was worried about getting a hard on. So I ask my self, how am I suppose to get a hard on by banging a girl I don't find attractive?
ever heard of a " double bag" ? :crackup: :crackup:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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switch said:
ever heard of a " double bag" ? :crackup: :crackup:
You wear one too just in case hers falls off?

Yeah, "not attractive" I'm guessing means you wouldn't take her out to dinner or bring her around your friends. 5's and 6's.... like one of the posters said, they're great for dry spells. Sometimes jerking it's better but a lot of the "not attractive" girls have some redeeming qualitys you can focus on. I'm not a big fan of banging ugos or fatties even when I'm **** canned. But taking down a few 5's and 6's can keep you from reeking of desperation while you're trying to bag an 8 or a 9.
 

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do you bang girls you dont really find attractive?

If you have any weird kinks or sick twisted sh!t you'd like to do to a woman, they are great for that.
 

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Girls I find 100% unattractive, no. But usually with 5s and 6s there's stuff about them that I do find attractive and stuff I don't. That's why they're 5s and not 10s or 1s.

So a girl might have a fantastic set of tits but be pretty darn ugly. I'll just bang her and look at the tits ;) Or if she's cute but chubby she can always give bl*wjobs. Or if she's not bangable at all she can introduce me to women who are.

You can always find good use for a girl you're not all that into. :D
 

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When I first started out I would settle for 5s for experience. This was merely nights when I was drunk and needed some booty. As I got better thought I would refuse to settle. I had a fb that wasn't particularly attractive, but it was convenient and I didn't have to deal with any bs. She was down for whatever. I'm in a LTR now and she's probably a 7, but if I was single, I wouldn't settle for anything less than a 6 unless I was in a huge dry spell.

BTW don't underestimate these girls especially in the BJ department. Fat girl=best BJ I ever had.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No. Can't shoot pool with rope.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Fat girl=best BJ I ever had.

I have said the same thing many times.

I concur, but the sight of them without clothes on makes me feel ashamed/sickened afterwards...

I decided I'd rather have my hand than see that.
 

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"Every loser in Vegas thinks they can do better! You know what winners do? They walk away from the table while they're up! " Coakley
 

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This may sound strange....

I'd much rather hook up with a chick with a bad body but an amazing face. Face it (no pun), you have to deal with that face for 98% of the time you are not having sex with her and they can always improve their bodies to some extent.

I have messed around with a few girls with great bodies and bad faces. I had trouble keeping it hard!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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