Do you actually enjoy women's company, or just in it for the sex?

[Scormus]

Seems I am in that camp now. Acting my way through dates, I only need them for what's between their legs.

 

[Tictac]

That's a shame. Women are fascinating (sometimes exasperating) if you don't take what they say seriously.

I have a rule or two. I never go out with a woman I'm not interested in on several levels including sexually. And I never do anything with them that I wouldn't enjoy doing either by myself or with friends.

Sex, including first date sex, is way cool.

But, enjoy the game, all of it. It is after all a one-way trip.

 

[LorenzoVonM]

Love women and love their company. I think feminine energy is a great balance to the masculine. It helps to accept them as they are. Women will act like women. Thinking anything else will cause disappointment and resentment.

 

[Warrior74]

The women who's company I enjoy would not be enjoyed by my penis and vice versa. The rare time we both would enjoy her, she's married or with someone. So it goes.

 

[Scormus]

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I enjoy women for their superficial outer qualities such as sex and affection and not their wicked hypergamous sociopathic inner core.

Exactly. Though affection only works if I like the girl enough. Good enough to be a GF and I welcome the affection.

That core is repulsive to me.

 

[zekko]

Love women and love their company. I think feminine energy is a great balance to the masculine.

That's what I think, they make a great balance. Yin and yang and all that. I certainly enjoy their company. A lot of the younger guys here complain that they can't talk about sports or whatever with women. But men can be annoying too.

The women who's company I enjoy would not be enjoyed by my penis and vice versa. The rare time we both would enjoy her, she's married or with someone.

It's no surprise that the most attractive women are taken. I think Backbreaker said something to the effect that by the time you get into your 30s, all the first rounders have been snatched up, and that makes a lot of sense. The most sexy, fun, and beautiful women aren't going to be on the market long before they get snatched up. Chances are, you aren't the first guy to notice them.

 

[Zarky]

All my friends except one are women. Most are ex-girlfriends LOL

 

[zekko]

All my friends except one are women. Most are ex-girlfriends LOL

I have a theory that men tend to grow to prefer women's company as they get older. No proof here, just a theory, I'd like to see what others think of it.

It starts out when you're kids, and the whole "ugh, girls are gross" thing.

Then it moves on to what you see on the general forum with all the 20 year olds - the girls are hot but they can't take the place of their "bros".

But by the time you get to a certain age, you'd rather hang around with a woman with her specific charms, as opposed to a guy who wants to beat you in bowling and get a better looking girl than you.

 

[backbreaker]

I enjoy my wife's company she's very light hearted and always upbeat. she puts me in a pretty good mood more times than not.

 

[5string]

I always enjoyed women back in the day, but only if they went commando.

 

[Scormus]

I want their bodies, but not whats in their hearts.

 

[Zarky]

I enjoy women for their superficial outer qualities such as sex and affection and not their wicked hypergamous sociopathic inner core.

Exactly. Though affection only works if I like the girl enough. Good enough to be a GF and I welcome the affection.

That core is repulsive to me.

Guys, see a shrink. I'm serious.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Scormus,
"I want their bodies, but not whats in their hearts."...Pretty much agree with your sentiments,my Male friends are much more interesting,and most importantly I understand them...No if it weren't for their Pussies,they would be stacked ten deep,out at the County Garbage Tip with all the other Witches,LOL.

 

[Duce]

I enjoy my wife's company she's very light hearted and always upbeat. she puts me in a pretty good mood more times than not.

I feel the same as this, which is a nice place to be imo.

 

[zekko]

I enjoy my wife's company she's very light hearted and always upbeat. she puts me in a pretty good mood more times than not.

Yeah, until I met my current girlfriend, I thought that *****iness was just a trait that all women shared. But she is probably the most laid back, mellow person I've even known, male or female.

Personally, I'm not "im love" with the idea that I could be emotionally invested in an opposite sex that will often leave me if I lose my job I.e. kick me when down.

It's hard to be crazy about that idea, true. Seems to be part of the equation though. There's nothing to be done about it, so it doesn't really bother me. And I also never allow myself to be totally invested. I always figure if I lose a girl, there's always another one waiting to take her place.

 

[Paintballguy]

I enjoy their company when they have my junk in their mouth.

 

[origin138]

Seems I am in that camp now. Acting my way through dates, I only need them for what's between their legs.

I had to think about this question. I enjoy being around women who behave like adult women and have good demeanors, femininity and grasp on life and its hardships. A feminine, real woman is great to have around provided she isn't completely physically repulsive. The second I start seeing the gossip, insecurity, male shaming (omg he's a CREEPER), loudness/crudeness, self-centeredness and cattiness fly around, I'm turned off pretty fast and would rather be alone or spend my time with more worthy people.

 

[WoodB]

I do enjoy their company; I have women friends with absolutely no sexual connections. However, when I focus on a woman with some kind of a relationship in mind, the Peter Meter kicks in, and it takes some effort not to say or do stupid things for the sake of eventually closing the deal. (Yes, even at my age, I tend the often think with the wrong head. Damnation!)

 

[Scormus]

, I tend the often think with the wrong head. Damnation!)

Its the right head.

 

[WoodB]

Its the right head.

On second thought, you're right on the mark!