A lot of posts from the top players say women want to be “led”, that any loss in attraction is due to a failure in leadership. Women want a firm man who knows what he wants and leads them to the promised land.
To lead a girl in North America in 2019, a girl who has power, money, and the system behind her, seems counter productive. If the man leads, she is scared and uncomfortable because she is in HIS zone and doesn’t know what to expect. “Will he rape or drug me?” If SHE leads, she feels comfortable enough to be with you and knows you aren’t going to attack her.
You have to let the girl come to you. That way you can control the variables in the situation while
she is on your turf and cannot claim anything against you.
So I don’t know how you guys keep saying “leadership, leadership, leadership.” It should be “take it easy, take it easy, take it easy.”
To lead a girl in North America in 2019, a girl who has power, money, and the system behind her, seems counter productive. If the man leads, she is scared and uncomfortable because she is in HIS zone and doesn’t know what to expect. “Will he rape or drug me?” If SHE leads, she feels comfortable enough to be with you and knows you aren’t going to attack her.
You have to let the girl come to you. That way you can control the variables in the situation while
she is on your turf and cannot claim anything against you.
So I don’t know how you guys keep saying “leadership, leadership, leadership.” It should be “take it easy, take it easy, take it easy.”