"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do women like to be dominated?

thunder_god

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I'm just curious whether or not girls like to be dominated say like in a club or if its through social circle or even a date? For example, does grabbing a chick's hand or waist and pulling her in work? Also does picking a girl up or even scooping her under your arms work? I'm curious to try this out on my social circle at school this Thursday. Can it help increase attraction for chicks who never thought of you that way before? I'm trying to change up my classmates perception of me as being a more dominant and assertive male instead of their previous perception of me being a passive, timid, quiet shy guy while at the same time I want to become this more dominant and assertive person. I haven't seen them in a month and while others even longer.

I was thinking when I see some of the girls this week, when I go for the hug I would pick them up, or if I stick out my hand and they reach out then I pull them in. I also want to try scooping a girl up under my arms. Is this too much and will they think I'm weird?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tomo

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Yes and yes. Wishy washy undeciding behavior I've realised is what woman do. Watch your parents sometimes; have you noticed mums the one whom will take a while to decide on things while dad usually straight up makes a choice on a matter? Even if his choice gets him into trouble?

Now onto dating, when out, the dates I've had success on have been the ones where I've lead, I've made a choice and the HB follows. From the get go when you greet her at hers; going for a kiss on the cheek, hugging her - essentially letting her know tonight is a date on YOUR terms. Choose the restaurant, choose a parking spot. When walking grab her arm and lead her somewhere or look in her eye and tell her you both are going to do something spontaneous you just spotted like a ferris wheel.

Girls want a man not a boy. It's the difference between a hug at the end of the night or pushing to go back to hers or another date.
 

jacob

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thunder_god said:
I'm just curious whether or not girls like to be dominated say like in a club or if its through social circle or even a date? For example, does grabbing a chick's hand or waist and pulling her in work? Also does picking a girl up or even scooping her under your arms work? I'm curious to try this out on my social circle at school this Thursday. Can it help increase attraction for chicks who never thought of you that way before? I'm trying to change up my classmates perception of me as being a more dominant and assertive male instead of their previous perception of me being a passive, timid, quiet shy guy while at the same time I want to become this more dominant and assertive person. I haven't seen them in a month and while others even longer.

I was thinking when I see some of the girls this week, when I go for the hug I would pick them up, or if I stick out my hand and they reach out then I pull them in. I also want to try scooping a girl up under my arms. Is this too much and will they think I'm weird?
Being aggressive turns on alot of females. And yes aggressive alpha males do lead females.

Again I know beautiful females that describe an alpha male as a man who is not afraid of women, and he goes for what he wants. He does what he wants without fear of offending her. To them this is masculine, and it brings out the little girl in her that finds this tough guy attractive and can protect her.

I find when I cold approach I am dominant and aggressive and this gets me better results than when I act timid and soft.

Be a man. Dominate her with your kino, but know when she doesn't like it and then you back off. You'll get way more results this way.

Being aggresisive and dominant has always landed me a kiss close in less than 5 minutes when cold approaching.
 

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It's all a case by case basis. Just be decisive. Indecision is a woman's role.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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There is a breed of the women nowadays who behave like men, they like to be in charge. These are usually the career minded women who walk around in power suits, delay getting married and are looking to settle later in life.

Personally I give these types a miss.
 

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Is water wet?
 

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Tictac said:
Dominated? Good luck with that.

Women want to be lead. Maybe an occasional woman wants to be dominated in public.

In the bedroom, dominated is absolutely true
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It really depends on the woman. Some women like it, some do not like. I like my husband to dominate me during sex, but another woman might haul off and slap you silly for doing that!
 
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