"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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do women have warped views of loyalty?

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I’ve had multiple short term relationships with women that were high interest for 2-3 months and then a day or week later I was dropped like a bad habit. One girl even stood me up on our last date after we’d seen each other ever weekend for 2 1/2 months.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I’ve had multiple short term relationships with women that were high interest for 2-3 months and then a day or week later I was dropped like a bad habit. One girl even stood me up on our last date after we’d seen each other ever weekend for 2 1/2 months.
cant wait for the downfall of the west, its gonna be dysfunction junction, with them crying out for mens help
 

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Ive noticed with a lot of women i deal with, and in my family.

When they get back with their ex, they cut all new date prospects instantly, ie: Don't even reply to DM's

my point being they don't even fade away. and keep orbiters chatting like i think they would.

literally super high interest to ghosting in 5 minutes flat.....

then they check back in again when it fails......

I would have thought they would have kept men orbiting for a few weeks, unless the ex is potentially insecure and checking her phone

weird species
Your first mistake is not using the block delete function and getting hotter younger girls. #next
 

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Your first mistake is not using the block delete function and getting hotter younger girls. #next
its an observation, I also have a well respected job in my Town, As much as id love to troll women for a living, I cant
 

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I’ve had multiple short term relationships with women that were high interest for 2-3 months and then a day or week later I was dropped like a bad habit. One girl even stood me up on our last date after we’d seen each other ever weekend for 2 1/2 months.
Become a mercenary. I am not playing.afte4 busting a nut, be hitting on other girls on your walk back to the car. Don't mistake sex or something like spending a weekend means these skanks are loyal. Hit and run material.

There is a scene in the movie Heat where Robert Daniro talks about willingness to walk. Spoiler - he demonstrates the following. Men need to develop a solipism of their own. Rollo refers to mental point of origin.


Not your girl. Just your turn.

I can count on one hand the amount worth a damn. Still not playing house.

The lizard brain is evolutionary why men value LOYALTY. it has survival benefits once upon a time. Women lack loyalty yet men still bend the knee. Men need to disconnect from provider and security male as well as being loyal to women. They don't warrant that until proven otherwise.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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its an observation, I also have a well respected job in my Town, As much as id love to troll women for a living, I cant
That doesn't mean that you cant block her. You have this finite life. You make space and like a vacuum you pull in women with high interest or you #next.
 

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My parents split up when I was 2, and I was raised by a single mom. Constantly around females during my formative years.

To this day, it’s a struggle for me to not empathize more with women than with men.
Meditate. Pray. Go to burning man and trip balls. Get past that otherwise you are in for a lifetime thrashing by women. The greatest generation women deserve empathy. They had character that is lacking in modern women today. these women married a her best. not post wall. they built a life with their men. today women are on the carousel and come entitled despite past her best. a basic background check of her digital footprint is a insta downgrade to booty call. not play house and move her in.
 

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cant wait for the downfall of the west, its gonna be dysfunction junction, with them crying out for mens help
It was so messed up how she did it. I kinda figured she had low interest in me the whole two months, I even called her out on it and of course she denied it. She’d keep calling and texting me and asking me to do stuff. Matter of fact the night she stood me up, I hadnt talked to her in a week, she text me wanting to do something. I was like fine whatever. I admit I was 15 mins late but she knew I was on the way, she even sent me a text “are you here?” And I pulled up 3 mins later and responded. Nothing. Called her and realized she’d blocked my number. Sent her a message on Facebook. Nothing.
 

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I hope you’ve moved on.

These women that go from hot to cold at the drop of a hat are nothing but trouble.
I have. Took me an entire week to get over it.lol I expect the worst now when dating women. Had one woman I’d just gone to a wedding with and dumped me the next day to get back with her ex. She drug me to a wedding, met all her friends and family. Then im dumped the next day.lol nothing surprises me anymore.
 

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It was so messed up how she did it. I kinda figured she had low interest in me the whole two months, I even called her out on it and of course she denied it. She’d keep calling and texting me and asking me to do stuff. Matter of fact the night she stood me up, I hadnt talked to her in a week, she text me wanting to do something. I was like fine whatever. I admit I was 15 mins late but she knew I was on the way, she even sent me a text “are you here?” And I pulled up 3 mins later and responded. Nothing. Called her and realized she’d blocked my number. Sent her a message on Facebook. Nothing.
The call out is a waste. Red pill parrots the same thing but they got burning desire down. You called her and she blocks you. You msg and no answer. I hope you got the message and more options.

Pro tip. Level up. When you see her in a distant future you will see the bullet you dodged. It's a character flaw on her but on you as well to over analyst.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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