"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do women get turned off my mustache or beard

khussa28

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i meant to write Do women get turned off by mustache or beard, dont know how to change the title

In the past like 50/100 years back having a mustache or beard was seen
as being manly and sexy, it seems like there's a perception that woman dont like this look anymore, im wondering why?

Also i know some people may think having a beard or mustache may look scruffy, or dirty, but ive seen some people who really look after it and trim it in perfect shape, now am thinking do any of you guys have a beard or mustache, do you think it has an effect on looks, do woman like this.

bradd pitt with beard in good shape

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_zjwrEZ2-EgQ/SRBkC4BEKFI/AAAAAAAAAC8/rEKkmHxqeLo/s400/beard.jpg

bradd pitt without beard
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-IRHUo7SXyGU/Td8ljlSPZsI/AAAAAAAAA38/e_8j5WcF_D4/s640/Brad+Pitt+Troy.jpg

what do you think of facial hair, does it improve your looks, attract woman
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pdx1138

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Lately I've noticed a lot of women prefer no mustache or beard.
 

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How would we know what every woman likes? You gonna decide on whether to keep a beard/mustache because women like/dont like it?
 

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Women tend to like beards that are short and well-trimmed. Big ugly scraggly ones (like that one Brad Pitt picture) are what turn most of them off (unless it's some hipster b!tch). I always get more attention when I have a short beard or even just a couple days worth of stubble than if I'm clean shaven.

As for mustaches I don't think those have been popular with single ladies for a long, long time. Pretty much every guy I know with a mustache is old and married so they have no reason to adjust to the times.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Atom Smasher

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Yeah, mustaches are totally out of style and have been for some time. Stubble is the way to go when it comes to facial hair.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Yeah, mustaches are totally out of style and have been for some time. Stubble is the way to go when it comes to facial hair.
This, all the way, unless you're a mexican... in which case, don't grow a mustache. They're gross looking.

You look like an unkempt 16 year old if you just straight up have a mustache and nothing else.
 

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My best mate has a moustache and beard. Not too long but definitely past the stubble stage.
I've lost count of the number of chicks he's fvcked that told him: "I don't normally go for guys with beards."
I dunno how he did it but he was a master PUA and I guess he just mind-fvcked them enough to make them see past their hatred of facial hair.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Zerro

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Sneevox said:
You look like an unkempt 16 year old if you just straight up have a mustache and nothing else.
Or a pedophile.
 

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It's said that people see men with beards as being untrustworthy. That they are hiding something. This may have something to do with the devil being depicted with a beard. Also putting your hand up to your face when talking, covering your mouth etc is seen as hiding something.
 

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Do what makes you feel good, it's easily grown or removed. What about dark hair with grays in it?? Now THAT's something you can't control. To dye or not to dye?
 

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VladPatton said:
Do what makes you feel good, it's easily grown or removed. What about dark hair with grays in it?? Now THAT's something you can't control. To dye or not to dye?
Just let it be, nothing says insecure like a guy who's dyes his hair. I got grey hairs coming in on my chest, beard, and on my arms but I don't give a damn about hiding them.
 

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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I find that a lot of women like a nice well trimmed beard. A lot depends on their age though. I younger chick might not like it as much as an older one
 
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