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Do women get turned off my mustache or beard

khussa28

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i meant to write Do women get turned off by mustache or beard, dont know how to change the title

In the past like 50/100 years back having a mustache or beard was seen
as being manly and sexy, it seems like there's a perception that woman dont like this look anymore, im wondering why?

Also i know some people may think having a beard or mustache may look scruffy, or dirty, but ive seen some people who really look after it and trim it in perfect shape, now am thinking do any of you guys have a beard or mustache, do you think it has an effect on looks, do woman like this.

bradd pitt with beard in good shape

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_zjwrEZ2-EgQ/SRBkC4BEKFI/AAAAAAAAAC8/rEKkmHxqeLo/s400/beard.jpg

bradd pitt without beard
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-IRHUo7SXyGU/Td8ljlSPZsI/AAAAAAAAA38/e_8j5WcF_D4/s640/Brad+Pitt+Troy.jpg

what do you think of facial hair, does it improve your looks, attract woman
 

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pdx1138

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Lately I've noticed a lot of women prefer no mustache or beard.
 

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How would we know what every woman likes? You gonna decide on whether to keep a beard/mustache because women like/dont like it?
 

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Women tend to like beards that are short and well-trimmed. Big ugly scraggly ones (like that one Brad Pitt picture) are what turn most of them off (unless it's some hipster b!tch). I always get more attention when I have a short beard or even just a couple days worth of stubble than if I'm clean shaven.

As for mustaches I don't think those have been popular with single ladies for a long, long time. Pretty much every guy I know with a mustache is old and married so they have no reason to adjust to the times.
 

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Atom Smasher

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Yeah, mustaches are totally out of style and have been for some time. Stubble is the way to go when it comes to facial hair.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Yeah, mustaches are totally out of style and have been for some time. Stubble is the way to go when it comes to facial hair.
This, all the way, unless you're a mexican... in which case, don't grow a mustache. They're gross looking.

You look like an unkempt 16 year old if you just straight up have a mustache and nothing else.
 

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My best mate has a moustache and beard. Not too long but definitely past the stubble stage.
I've lost count of the number of chicks he's fvcked that told him: "I don't normally go for guys with beards."
I dunno how he did it but he was a master PUA and I guess he just mind-fvcked them enough to make them see past their hatred of facial hair.
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zerro

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Sneevox said:
You look like an unkempt 16 year old if you just straight up have a mustache and nothing else.
Or a pedophile.
 

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It's said that people see men with beards as being untrustworthy. That they are hiding something. This may have something to do with the devil being depicted with a beard. Also putting your hand up to your face when talking, covering your mouth etc is seen as hiding something.
 

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Do what makes you feel good, it's easily grown or removed. What about dark hair with grays in it?? Now THAT's something you can't control. To dye or not to dye?
 

Zerro

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VladPatton said:
Do what makes you feel good, it's easily grown or removed. What about dark hair with grays in it?? Now THAT's something you can't control. To dye or not to dye?
Just let it be, nothing says insecure like a guy who's dyes his hair. I got grey hairs coming in on my chest, beard, and on my arms but I don't give a damn about hiding them.
 

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BlackMack177

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I find that a lot of women like a nice well trimmed beard. A lot depends on their age though. I younger chick might not like it as much as an older one
 
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