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Do women get turned off my mustache or beard

khussa28

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i meant to write Do women get turned off by mustache or beard, dont know how to change the title

In the past like 50/100 years back having a mustache or beard was seen
as being manly and sexy, it seems like there's a perception that woman dont like this look anymore, im wondering why?

Also i know some people may think having a beard or mustache may look scruffy, or dirty, but ive seen some people who really look after it and trim it in perfect shape, now am thinking do any of you guys have a beard or mustache, do you think it has an effect on looks, do woman like this.

bradd pitt with beard in good shape

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_zjwrEZ2-EgQ/SRBkC4BEKFI/AAAAAAAAAC8/rEKkmHxqeLo/s400/beard.jpg

bradd pitt without beard
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-IRHUo7SXyGU/Td8ljlSPZsI/AAAAAAAAA38/e_8j5WcF_D4/s640/Brad+Pitt+Troy.jpg

what do you think of facial hair, does it improve your looks, attract woman
 

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Lately I've noticed a lot of women prefer no mustache or beard.
 

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How would we know what every woman likes? You gonna decide on whether to keep a beard/mustache because women like/dont like it?
 

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Women tend to like beards that are short and well-trimmed. Big ugly scraggly ones (like that one Brad Pitt picture) are what turn most of them off (unless it's some hipster b!tch). I always get more attention when I have a short beard or even just a couple days worth of stubble than if I'm clean shaven.

As for mustaches I don't think those have been popular with single ladies for a long, long time. Pretty much every guy I know with a mustache is old and married so they have no reason to adjust to the times.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Yeah, mustaches are totally out of style and have been for some time. Stubble is the way to go when it comes to facial hair.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Yeah, mustaches are totally out of style and have been for some time. Stubble is the way to go when it comes to facial hair.
This, all the way, unless you're a mexican... in which case, don't grow a mustache. They're gross looking.

You look like an unkempt 16 year old if you just straight up have a mustache and nothing else.
 

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My best mate has a moustache and beard. Not too long but definitely past the stubble stage.
I've lost count of the number of chicks he's fvcked that told him: "I don't normally go for guys with beards."
I dunno how he did it but he was a master PUA and I guess he just mind-fvcked them enough to make them see past their hatred of facial hair.
 

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Sneevox said:
You look like an unkempt 16 year old if you just straight up have a mustache and nothing else.
Or a pedophile.
 

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It's said that people see men with beards as being untrustworthy. That they are hiding something. This may have something to do with the devil being depicted with a beard. Also putting your hand up to your face when talking, covering your mouth etc is seen as hiding something.
 

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Do what makes you feel good, it's easily grown or removed. What about dark hair with grays in it?? Now THAT's something you can't control. To dye or not to dye?
 

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VladPatton said:
Do what makes you feel good, it's easily grown or removed. What about dark hair with grays in it?? Now THAT's something you can't control. To dye or not to dye?
Just let it be, nothing says insecure like a guy who's dyes his hair. I got grey hairs coming in on my chest, beard, and on my arms but I don't give a damn about hiding them.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I find that a lot of women like a nice well trimmed beard. A lot depends on their age though. I younger chick might not like it as much as an older one
 
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