Do Women Get Angry if You Don’t Act Beta?

[SargeMaximus]

Hey guys, I’m back doing door to door again and having a blast. There is something I’ve noticed tho that sometimes happens and it’s with attractive women. I just notice they seem very angry at me sometimes. I speak to hundreds of people a year and I can tell you my door presence is on point so I’ve started to suspect maybe it’s the fact that I am Unphased by these attractive women. I can’t think of any other reason why they get so angry and short with me sometimes.

I been doing this for 7 years so it’s not that I’m bad at it or being socially retarded.

anyone else ever noticed attractive women getting angry if you genuinely DGAF about her one way or the other?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Hey guys, I’m back doing door to door again and having a blast. There is something I’ve noticed tho that sometimes happens and it’s with attractive women. I just notice they seem very angry at me sometimes. I speak to hundreds of people a year and I can tell you my door presence is on point so I’ve started to suspect maybe it’s the fact that I am Unphased by these attractive women. I can’t think of any other reason why they get so angry and short with me sometimes.

I been doing this for 7 years so it’s not that I’m bad at it or being socially retarded.

anyone else ever noticed attractive women getting angry if you genuinely DGAF about her one way or the other?

Most men submit to them. Yes. Don't try to reason with it. Keep it moving. B

 

[EyeBRollin]

Yes. Some women do get put off by a man being “too alpha.” The correct term is calibration.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Yes. Some women do get put off by a man being “too alpha.” The correct term is calibration.

Yeah but that’s the thing, my calibration is good with most other people. What could the issue be?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Most men submit to them. Yes. Don't try to reason with it. Keep it moving. B

BTW you being on point and having strong self control around them also angers them.

 

[SargeMaximus]

BTW you being on point and having strong self control around them also angers them.

Yes that’s my suspicion as well. I don’t know a solution because duplicating isn’t an option

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yes that’s my suspicion as well. I don’t know a solution because duplicating isn’t an option

Enough acting to be a "siren" to them just like they do us. Otherwise you'll get accused if being controlling and aggressive. They have to be disarmed and charmed instead.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I don’t act. And I’m not aggressive. I’m just there and they get all angry

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Are they expecting you to act beta from their initial impression of your appearance?

 

[SargeMaximus]

Are they expecting you to act beta from their initial impression of your appearance?

Hard to say. I’m working door to door. Despite my own beliefs, I’m sure most people see it as a loser profession

 

[Barrister]

Only if it’s disingenuous. If you truly are an alpha she isn’t going to fu*k with what you want. Exception being if you’re in an LTR and she’s starts pushing back on your frame.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Only if it’s disingenuous. If you truly are an alpha she isn’t going to fu*k with what you want. Exception being if you’re in an LTR and she’s starts pushing back on your frame.

I’m not being disingenuous. In fact, over the years I’ve learned the only way to succeed at this is to be 100% authentic.

 

[metalwater]

maybe they are just angry, and not much to do with you.

 

[SargeMaximus]

maybe they are just angry, and not much to do with you.

That could be. Over the years I’ve learned that is always a possibility. I’ve also noticed that whenever I’m on my A game, there are always a few haters. But when everyone loves me, I’m not getting any results.

I guess I just hoped that this was something I could use to advance my
Game.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I don’t act. And I’m not aggressive. I’m just there and they get all angry

We might have to do a little acting. It's not bad, it's also dominating in a way it's controlling outcomes.

 

[RangerMIke]

All people react negatively when others do not behave the way we expect.... it's human nature.

 

[zekko]

Yeah but that’s the thing, my calibration is good with most other people. What could the issue be?

How many people do you have good calibration with, where you are sending them the message that you DGAF about them?
Guys must not be needy, but I think people can take this DGAF thing too far.

 

[Sir FB]

Lol

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

This is a test, if you are out off by her anger, you are a beta, period, a woman's anger means nothing, she can be as angry as she wants, can freely turn that anger into happiness in seconds and what are you really gonna say about it?

 

[SargeMaximus]

All people react negatively when others do not behave the way we expect.... it's human nature.

I think this is the closest to the truth here. But I thought women liked men who didn't treat them special or supplicate. When I first started in sales, I used to have trouble with hot women affecting my frame but not anymore. They are common enough that I'm used to seeing them. Once I was presenting to a uniersity girl who was in her tank top and panties. Didn't phase me. She didn't get angry tho so not a fair comparison.

How many people do you have good calibration with, where you are sending them the message that you DGAF about them?
Guys must not be needy, but I think people can take this DGAF thing too far.

Like I said, I been doing this for 7 years. Hundreds, probably over a thousand. At the door, I'm very good. What I meant by DGAF was that I'm there to do my job, not oggle at the women.