"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do wings have to be good lookin??!

AAAgent

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so i am just wondering if i want to bring a wing with me do they have to be good looking?

i have a few good friends back from break on college and not all of them are the best looking.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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trv26

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Not very experienced in these matters.

In any case, in my opinion, the ideal wing will be, someone with good game and/or looks who will keep the other lady/ladies in the set interested, while you go after you target.

But remember...two guys, even best-friends will always be competing for the ladies.

So ideally he will be a little less good-looking and/or not as good at the game as you, so that you get first dibs on the prettier ladies. Therefore, go for someone good, but not quite as good as you, unless you're looking for someone to teach you the workings of the game.
 

Prodigy746

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I dont know ... i figure hot chicks can hang out with fat chicks so it should be cool for the male to hang out with not so good looking guys.
 

Dannyrt34

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A good wing can be one of your friends who has a girlfriend. I have one and he's great at starting conversations. He also is loyal to his girlfriend, so when were out, he always lets the girls were talking to know that he has a girl. He then points to me and tells them that I am single.

I agree though wings should never be jealous, I went out with my cousin last night. The girl that he liked ended up liking me. I felt kind of bad.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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