"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do wings have to be good lookin??!

AAAgent

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so i am just wondering if i want to bring a wing with me do they have to be good looking?

i have a few good friends back from break on college and not all of them are the best looking.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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trv26

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Not very experienced in these matters.

In any case, in my opinion, the ideal wing will be, someone with good game and/or looks who will keep the other lady/ladies in the set interested, while you go after you target.

But remember...two guys, even best-friends will always be competing for the ladies.

So ideally he will be a little less good-looking and/or not as good at the game as you, so that you get first dibs on the prettier ladies. Therefore, go for someone good, but not quite as good as you, unless you're looking for someone to teach you the workings of the game.
 

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I dont know ... i figure hot chicks can hang out with fat chicks so it should be cool for the male to hang out with not so good looking guys.
 

Dannyrt34

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A good wing can be one of your friends who has a girlfriend. I have one and he's great at starting conversations. He also is loyal to his girlfriend, so when were out, he always lets the girls were talking to know that he has a girl. He then points to me and tells them that I am single.

I agree though wings should never be jealous, I went out with my cousin last night. The girl that he liked ended up liking me. I felt kind of bad.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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