"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do wings have to be good lookin??!

AAAgent

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so i am just wondering if i want to bring a wing with me do they have to be good looking?

i have a few good friends back from break on college and not all of them are the best looking.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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trv26

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Not very experienced in these matters.

In any case, in my opinion, the ideal wing will be, someone with good game and/or looks who will keep the other lady/ladies in the set interested, while you go after you target.

But remember...two guys, even best-friends will always be competing for the ladies.

So ideally he will be a little less good-looking and/or not as good at the game as you, so that you get first dibs on the prettier ladies. Therefore, go for someone good, but not quite as good as you, unless you're looking for someone to teach you the workings of the game.
 

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I dont know ... i figure hot chicks can hang out with fat chicks so it should be cool for the male to hang out with not so good looking guys.
 

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A good wing can be one of your friends who has a girlfriend. I have one and he's great at starting conversations. He also is loyal to his girlfriend, so when were out, he always lets the girls were talking to know that he has a girl. He then points to me and tells them that I am single.

I agree though wings should never be jealous, I went out with my cousin last night. The girl that he liked ended up liking me. I felt kind of bad.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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